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Old 07-22-2013, 09:58 PM
 
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I would not be interested in pursing any kind of relationship with those in fields that....

-Put them in danger: cop, fire fighter, military..etc
-Require long distance for extended periods: military, oil rig, fishing boat..etc
-Anything that attains celebrity status: actors, sports..etc.

I also wouldn't be interested in those in Finance and Sales and politics. In my personal experience folks in these professions have been compulsive liars and are self-absorbed human beings.

I'd also not be interested in those that whine and complain about their job and do nothing to change their situation. That's pure laziness in my opinion and that is a complete turn-off.
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Old 07-22-2013, 10:16 PM
 
Location: SGV, CA
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Money is the #1 cause of divorce. I'm turned off by any job that pays less than 1/3 of what I get. Obviously there can be many extenuating circumstances but if your lack of pay is due to a lack of ambition or foresight then I'm not interested.
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Old 07-22-2013, 11:03 PM
 
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I would not be interested in pursing any kind of relationship with those in fields that....

-Put them in danger: cop, fire fighter, military..etc
-Require long distance for extended periods: military, oil rig, fishing boat..etc
-Anything that attains celebrity status: actors, sports..etc.

I also wouldn't be interested in those in Finance and Sales and politics. In my personal experience folks in these professions have been compulsive liars and are self-absorbed human beings.

I'd also not be interested in those that whine and complain about their job and do nothing to change their situation. That's pure laziness in my opinion and that is a complete turn-off.
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Old 07-22-2013, 11:48 PM
 
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Hmmm.
I would be apprehensive in dating......


Electrician.
I'm curious why?
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Old 07-22-2013, 11:54 PM
 
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It's all hypothetical...truth is I probably wouldn't be dating anyone if I were single. See....no hard feelings
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Old 07-23-2013, 12:07 AM
 
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It's all hypothetical...truth is I probably wouldn't be dating anyone if I were single. See....no hard feelings
No, you were right. I wouldn't date me.
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Old 07-23-2013, 12:12 AM
 
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No, you were right. I wouldn't date me.
Well...if it's any consolation, I wouldn't date me either.
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Old 07-23-2013, 01:21 AM
 
Location: NYC
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It's pretty easy to find employment as an engineer. If you do internships while you're in school, employers will come looking for you.
my dream of living indefinitely in a rented apartment(with or without a roommate) and spending all my money on cool stuff(video games, merchandise, the box sets of shows I like, electronics, a pool table, possibly other sports tables if I can find the room) finally seems realistic

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Lots of assumptions about newscasters, politicians, lawyers, bankers. What about Civil Rights lawyers, or immigration lawyers? What about people who go into politics in order to bring about positive change in their communities, or in the nation?
every politician is a liar, they may not start out that way, but they get that way, replace liar with crook for lawyers

remember, casey anthony and george zimmerman had lawyers who defended the obviously guilty for money.

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I can't think of specific jobs, but anyone with the "big swinging dick" finance/corporate mentality, workaholics, or anyone who thinks that money is the most important thing about work (e.g. the kind of guy who puts down the arts and the humanities as being "pointless.")
it's not just money

a worthless job that will accomplish nothing, garner no respect, and make no money(and therefor leave you poor your whole life and indebted due to college) is stupid

get a real job like a doctor or engineer or scientist and you can make a difference without being an idealistic moron with no grasp of the real world.
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Old 07-23-2013, 01:28 AM
 
Location: California
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I can't think of a legitimate job that would turn me off to someone. Maybe right wing radio show host or religious cult leader....
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:38 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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it's not just money

a worthless job that will accomplish nothing, garner no respect, and make no money(and therefor leave you poor your whole life and indebted due to college) is stupid

get a real job like a doctor or engineer or scientist and you can make a difference without being an idealistic moron with no grasp of the real world.
^^This is exactly the mentality about arts or social science careers that I find repulsive.
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