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Old 07-29-2013, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I've been emotionally unhealthy since 11
And you are only 23. There is plenty of time to get yourself back on track. I know you don't see this - but you are still very young. Don't let your childhood prevent you from having a healthy adulthood.

 
Old 07-29-2013, 02:33 PM
 
Location: My House
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I mean, ofcourse you don't know what she has or hasn't done with other people. Afterall, you're her husbands sister why would she tell you anything??
They're from a very small town and she's not a good liar. Besides, for that month when he left and was screwing a cocktail waitress, she would not give up on him even when I suggested she give up on him.

You're a paranoid person.
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Old 07-29-2013, 02:35 PM
 
Location: My House
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I definitely agree with this right here. Finally, someone who is realistic.
It is realistic to think that people might benefit from multiple partners. It is PARANOID to push your fears off on your girlfriend. I know more than one person who has only ever had one sexual partner, that being their spouse.
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Old 07-29-2013, 02:36 PM
 
Location: My House
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What do you want?
He should want therapy. Lots of it.
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Old 07-29-2013, 02:38 PM
 
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He should want therapy. Lots of it.
You don't think our little armchair psychology clatch is helping him?
 
Old 07-29-2013, 02:39 PM
 
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It is realistic to think that people might benefit from multiple partners. It is PARANOID to push your fears off on your girlfriend. I know more than one person who has only ever had one sexual partner, that being their spouse.

This dude shouldn't be having any spouse or partners until he has a healthy relationship with himself!
 
Old 07-29-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: My House
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Oh you're right!!! Omg I remember seeing two before I met my girlfriend and Oh, you know what? It doesn't work.
Quit dating people. You're not relationship material until you sort out your steamer trunks' worth of baggage.
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Old 07-29-2013, 02:40 PM
 
Location: My House
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You don't think our little armchair psychology clatch is helping him?
Nope.

I forgot my tweed jacket today.
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Old 07-29-2013, 03:14 PM
 
Location: New York
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He should want therapy. Lots of it.
Therapy doesn't work, i guess you haven't seen the million times I've posted this already. Have you been to therapy? If you haven't then you have no room to speak.
 
Old 07-29-2013, 03:15 PM
 
Location: New York
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Quit dating people. You're not relationship material until you sort out your steamer trunks' worth of baggage.
Lol baggage never leaves
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