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most marriages are worse than mine. that's why the divorce rate is 54%.
i tried to get a marriage counselor but she wouldn't go.
Just bc someone divorces does not mean their marriage sucked.
They could just be selfish lazy aholes. That has been the case in the majority of divorces I have seen.
You can't change your spouse but you can change yourself.
Join a gym, get in shape. Workout before or after work, tell your spouse she now needs to get the kids up or make dinner. Update your wardrobe, go hang out with your friends some evenings instead of spending them on the couch. Sign up for some night classes at your local community college; start working on a degree or certification.
If she complains, shrug it off. What is she going to do? Talk of divorce and actual divorce are two very different things. Changing yourself may force her to face her complacency and improve herself.
I am curious how he can post on the forum when "all he is allowed to do" is let out the dog, fix supper, take care of the kids, work and watch television with his wife.
So wtf do you want or expect out of life? It's what you make of it. You're the one who is bored...why put the onus on your wife to make it something else.
Take responsiblity for your existence.
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Originally Posted by Silex
she said she will divorce me and keep the kids plus money if i complain
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