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Old 08-03-2013, 07:07 PM
 
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Picture of the girl please
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:12 PM
 
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she does sound,,like she's got a fire in the bush,,,, and wants you to be the fireman
Very poetic. Thankfully nothing about hoses.....
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:14 PM
 
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I used to be very good friends with a married female coworker and lost touch for about 5 years. We used to go out to lunch often and were close friends, but nothing romantic. I am married too.

We recently reconnected and email each other just general chit chat about twice a week. We have started going out to lunch again and whenever we have lunch, within a day, she sends an email asking when we can go to lunch again.

She has been sending emails saying how much she looks forward to our lunches. Out of the blue, she send an email saying how much she enjoys my company and then says "Tom, you have captured my heart."

I have never been very smooth around women and while I know this looks like something, am I overreacting? Does this mean she is interested romantically? She doesn't do anything at lunch to indicate it, like touch my arm, etc.

Sorry if I come off as naive, but I don't have much experience with women and am clueless on signs and signals.
Is there trouble in your own marriage? Something you can work on? Or do you not take your marriage vows seriously? I suggest you get divorced before starting relations with someone else- not fair to your wife.
In my opinion marriage is for life.
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:18 PM
 
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Flirt back.
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:19 PM
 
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Is there trouble in your own marriage? Something you can work on? Or do you not take your marriage vows seriously? I suggest you get divorced before starting relations with someone else- not fair to your wife.
In my opinion marriage is for life.
You didn't see my prior post. I am happily married and agree in that marriage is for life. I'm trying to figure out if I'm overreacting or if I should end the friendship.
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:20 PM
 
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Picture of the girl please
She's actually a very attractive Latina woman.
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:22 PM
 
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She's actually a very attractive Latina woman.
You don't want a jealous Latino guy coming after you.
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:27 PM
 
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You didn't see my prior post. I am happily married and agree in that marriage is for life. I'm trying to figure out if I'm overreacting or if I should end the friendship.
That is good that you do take your marriage vows seriously

In my honest opinion- if I was married I would certainly end that friendship- I wouldn't feel comfortable remaining friends with her. Sounds to me like she doesn't take her marriage vows seriously.
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Old 08-03-2013, 08:50 PM
 
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The confusion is that the "heart" email was one time. When we are in person, there is no flirting, no comments, nothing. Just acting like friends.
Five dollar....five dollar....five dollar she wants a foooot loooong!
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Old 08-03-2013, 08:53 PM
 
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Flirt back.
She likes "lunch" with him.

Lunch huh?
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