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Originally Posted by ocnjgirl
Why does she owe you an apology? Anyone has the right to change their mind about a date, without explanation or apology. Your letter will not make you feel better, it'll only make you look desperate and she will say to herself "thank God I cancelled with this guy". I know you don't see it, but your expectations for this girl are way out of proportion for a first meet IMO. She cancelled ahead of time, it's not like she stood you up. IMO that is ALL she owed you.
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I agree.
People seem to want to punish (verbally, I mean) people for not wanting them, and to make the person feel bad. Why? Haven't you ever just not been into someone who was into you? Did that make
you a bad person who deserved a tongue-lashing?
In the dating world, it just doesn't always work out, period. That's why it's "dating" - you need to date and have a few conversations with a person to see
if you both feel "it". Just agreeing to one date, or loosely agreeing to another but then thinking about it and realizing you're not into it and not wanting to string the person along by going ahead with it, isn't a punishable offense, IMO.
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