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Old 08-07-2013, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles County, CA
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Signals?

Like smoke rings in the dark?
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Old 08-08-2013, 03:59 AM
 
Location: CA
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Common signals are eye contact, smiling, asking questions, giving compliments. But some women are afraid to do that stuff, some don't know to do it, and some just do it to everyone because they want to be friendly. So it's kind of a crap shoot.
Pretty much this... which is why observing someone in context helps. Are they that way with everyone? Are they generally very awkward or shy? This can help you gauge signals - put them in context.

Signals even she may not be aware of are:
- exposing wrists to you, open arms, not crossed - (however, if intimidated by YOUR attractiveness, she may close-up)
- exposing neck to you, tilting head, moving hair aside
- playing with her own hair or generally self-touching (no, not THAT way) when speaking/looking at you
- looking up at you with head tilted down (looks child-like, appears vulnerable)
- making eye contact, then breaking it by looking down
- legs crossed towards you
- any incidental touching that really could be avoided

These are signs of "openness" because they show vulnerability &/or some physical attraction.
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