How do you know how good you are in bed? (date, women)

[bebe182]

So just had this convo with my friend where she said there are two thungs you'll never know about yourself 1) what you physically look like in other people's eye and 2) how good you are in bed. And I guess she's right, I mean everyone thinks they're good in bed, I've never met anyone who thought they were bad in bed, and yet there are plenty of people who are lousy lovers. So how do you know if you really are good in bed? Because most people aren't going to tell their sexual partners they're bad in bed.

[atgss]

Not to worry about it as one will never be able to satisfy everyone.

I'm good in my bed every night when I get some sleep.

[BirdieBelle]

When you get lots of repeat visits.

[plmokn]

Originally Posted by bebe182

how good you are in bed.

I've actually measured my performance, taken metrics, and instituted a performance improvement plan. In the past year, my performance has increased 6.9% with less cost and ahead of schedule.

[findly185]

For women it's easy. Guy has orgasam, youre good in bed.

For guys on the other hand, it's a complicated mess. Who the he** really knows what's good for most women.

[rlrl]

the answer to that last question is another woman??!!

[*Sixy*]

I'm good in bed when I want to be.
I know because his eyes roll in the back of his head, he squirms and he begs for more if I stop.

If he's been faking it for 20yrs...well, sucks for him.

[TaoistDude]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

When you get lots of repeat visits.

That's pretty much the best criteria. And if they have other options but keep choosing you, it's pretty clear too. In a relationship, you can't really be sure, because the relationship may trump the sex, as long as the sex is not really poor. Even then, though, lots of repeat requests count for something.

[Prince_Frog]

When she wants seconds.

Then wants it again in the morning.

Then she comes back later in the evening and wants it again.

And she keeps coming back wanting more, and she initiates at times.

[Mimi85]

LoL sorry this thread is funny because ...well....the guy I used to date was really bad and he thought he was good. Sighhh...I did not have the heart to tell him soo.....