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I used to sit beside a girl in class in 2011 and she would always smile, stare at me and be nice to me. Anyways at the end of the semester I added her to facebook and started being mean to her called her ugly, small etc. she just restricted me. Then I kept unfriending her and adding her back and she kept accepting. Anyways I started more convos she responded but then I started being mean again to her and now she just blocks me. I can't stop thinking about her but I don't really like her that much anymore. She also kept mentioning me about a bf while i wa sbeing mean to her. How do you lose feelings
WHY OH WHY, if you are looking to attract a girl or woman to you and get her to be drawn to you and stay with you, would you decide to be mean and call her ugly, small, etc. and then, after you had seemngly patched it up with her and got her to think you are OK, you decide to resume being mean to her again? In YOUR mind, is meanness supposed to be an attracting human quality? So if the tables were turned and a girl or woman is mean to you and plays with your head in a mean and devious way, THIS will win your heart and make you want to be with her?
I get the sense that you are very young (maybe 6th grade or junior high school age). I may be wrong about that but I would think that, at ANY age, even as a small child of 5 or 6, if someone is consistently mean to you, you'd feel adverse to them and avoid them. What in your mind made you think that exemplifying meanness and hurtfulness would make you attractive to a female (or even to a male)? Is this something that you read in a magazine or book that you should do? Or did someone tell you that this is the way to attract girls or women? Or did you conclude all by yourself that this is the approach to use to attract and hold onto girls or women? Yeah, a girl or woman may not want a guy who is an outright weak person or wimpy or lacking in healthy self-confidence (one who doesn't believe in himself) but that doesn't mean that your chosen approach of meannes and mixed signals is a way to convey that you are not weak or wimpy or lacking in self-esteemand self-confidence.
This thread is headed nowhere fast, so I'm closing it.
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