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How are we to know anything? Maybe she has put a tremendous amt. of work into the marriage. Maybe she's asked him to go to counseling. Maybe he beats her when he doesn't get what he wants. We have no idea what's really going on. We could make up any scenario we want, and base some advice on that, but what would be the point?
That's what I'm saying!! We don't know.
He seems like he's ready to walk from his post and he's done working on it. But who knows?
I don't want to mess up the rest of this vacation by having yet another useless talk with my wife. This is the last straw, Things are going to be mighty different when we get home.
Aloha and welcome, my suggestion brah, quit trying and let Hawai'i be the oysters in your sex life, let it happen.
How are we to know anything? Maybe she has put a tremendous amt. of work into the marriage. Maybe she's asked him to go to counseling. Maybe he beats her when he doesn't get what he wants. We have no idea what's really going on. We could make up any scenario we want, and base some advice on that, but what would be the point?
I like how you put all the possible negative things in the marriage on the man.
If you've talked the situation to death and she keeps agreeing with you but never changes than you know she is blowing smoke up your a&&. So the time for talk is finished and now it's time for action.
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I don't want to mess up the rest of this vacation by having yet another useless talk with my wife. This is the last straw, Things are going to be mighty different when we get home.
I think this is the right move if you've been going in circles over this for years. One of two things will happen: The marriage will fall apart and you can move on with your life or she will see that the sexless marriage issue is HUGE with you and do something about it. Just doing what you've been doing over and over again (talking) hasn't worked in the past and will not in the future. So why keep banging your head? What did Einstein say the definition of stupidity is?
Good luck and I hope the marriage can be saved?
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Im not going to be mean. Wouldnt do any good anyway. Im throwing in the towel and Im going to ask for separation. This incident at least tells me where I stand. I dont see myself struggling through this for the next 10+ years.
But he hasn't given us enough info on the situation to allow us to do anything but play guessing games. He apparently doesn't want advice, or he would have offered more info. So he's just here to vent in a cryptic fashion. The point isn't that anyone is "demanding" info. It's simply that no one has the faintest idea what's going on, because he hasn't told us. Is it the wife's fault there's no sex? Is it his fault? We're clueless. So what's the point of his posting?
Quit shouting down the thread. You encoUrage one sided rants all the time.
He's either fighting or having sex, that's why he's not posting.
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Nice to see the adolescents chime in.
true, only adolescents want a healthy sex life or frequent sex in their marriage
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