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A booty call is something that happens at the end of the night when you're both drunk and call to meet up for sex.
^^^^ Yep
If he was dating you and taking you out for dinner and other activities that is "Not" a booty call. When all you is get is closing time calls for sex "That is" a booty call.
Your guy friend who said this was a "Booty call" would think a married couple having sex is FWB.
If he was dating you and taking you out for dinner and other activities that is "Not" a booty call. When all you is get closing time calls for sex "That is" a booty call.
Your guy friend who said this was a "Booty call" would think a married couple having sex is FWB.
Yea now that I think about it, he's actually labeled most of my relationships as booty calls at one point or another, see the thing is he's my closest guy friend so when I start dating someone knew I try to get advice from him, and sometimes I think he gives me sound advice but sometimes I think he jumps to conclusions or just assumes every guy thinks the way he does (he's a commitment phobe). He's been divorced for 15 years and has not had a serious girlfriend since, but lots of booty calls!
I always thought a booty call was just calling a girl with the explicit purpose of getting sex. Those were dates, although dates don't have to end with sex.
Yea mabye he meant FWB, but isn't dating really a FWB thing until you make it official anyway?
I was seeing a guy a while ago and once we started sleeping together, we would have sex on all our dates, I mean that wasn't the only thing we did, we'd go out to dinner or what not and then afterwards have sex, we were in contact everyday also. So I always thought it was pretty normal when you start seeing/dating someone and having sex with them, that you would have sex with them everytime you see them (if circumstances allow) especially in the begging. However, I was talking to one of my guy friends the other day, and this somehow came up and he said "oh come on that's a booty call", but I really wasn't under the impression that, that's what it was.
I am no longer with this guy, so it really doesn't matter since its in the past, just wanted to get some opinions for future reference.
Usually, you're either a:
a. good for now girl (booty call falls under here)
b. marriage potential girl
c. straight booty call girl (meaning, aka outward agreement of a "f@ck buddy" type ordeal).
When you're a b.) option girl, the guy goes above and beyond and shows you he's serious. He mentions about his friends, he remembers the names of important people in your life; your dates consist of "planning." A guy who's serious really wants you to know he's serious so he doesn't lose you. He commits, keeps his promises, and meets you at a level where he REALLY sets the bar. He wants to, and is more than happy to oblige.
If he's nonchalant, chances are, he's probably not got great social skills and/or also really not that serious about the relationship, passively interested, and catering to his own convenience, needs, wants, etc. etc. He makes it ALL about himself, and is subtle or very clear (depends on his personality and what's suitable for the time being, how many options he has which he won't be upfront and share with you for obvious reasons ex- "we're really just friends").
All you need to know about the telltale signs is the level of quality conversations you have, his level of attentiveness and attuning to how you feel.
Because a guy's either gaming you or he's not (and if he's on the fence, he's still in a way playing ya if he feels he settles).
Sounds like you guys were somewhat dating, though maybe not exclusively.
If he was taking you to dinner and introducing you to his friends you were more than just a booty call.
For me a booty call is just sex. Minimal hanging out otherwise.
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Well the introducing me happened becuase we bumped into some of his friends when we were out. And then I met his business partner one night, because he too me to the lounge he works at.
a. good for now girl (booty call falls under here)
b. marriage potential girl
c. straight booty call girl (meaning, aka outward agreement of a "f@ck buddy" type ordeal).
I was seeing a guy a while ago and once we started sleeping together, we would have sex on all our dates, I mean that wasn't the only thing we did, we'd go out to dinner or what not and then afterwards have sex, we were in contact everyday also. So I always thought it was pretty normal when you start seeing/dating someone and having sex with them, that you would have sex with them everytime you see them (if circumstances allow) especially in the begging. However, I was talking to one of my guy friends the other day, and this somehow came up and he said "oh come on that's a booty call", but I really wasn't under the impression that, that's what it was.
I am no longer with this guy, so it really doesn't matter since its in the past, just wanted to get some opinions for future reference.
He was jealous and perhaps something of a limp dick if he thinks Enjoyment = f(Amt of Sex*Amt of Love) is a constant, such that you have to give up a "unit" of sex to gain a unit of love! If you and your ex had sex often that means he liked having sex a lot with you and, hopefully, you did too. But it's not an either/or zero-sum proposition.
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