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Old 08-13-2013, 11:51 AM
 
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I am 50 and my girlfriend is 46. We've been dating six months. She is a Christian and does not want to have premarital sex of any kind though there has been heavy petting. I'm actually okay with this and can respect it, being raised in a Christian home. I also like someone who's a little more conservative in these areas.

On several occasions, she has initiated racy conversations over the telephone and some borderline phone sex.

Not that I completely mind this, but I'm just confused. Is this normal? I've never had this happen before, especially from a Christian girl!

Is this someone who's stable?
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Old 08-13-2013, 11:55 AM
 
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Hahahahaha
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Old 08-13-2013, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Hartford CT
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Have you aksed her why she does this?
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That is too freaken old for that crap. Sheesh heavy petting? Omg!
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:05 PM
 
Location: NY
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1st time poster?

I am calling BS on this one.

Seriously, a 50 and 46 year olds calling it "heavy petting?"



If not... then make some moves. If she shuts it down, then walk. She shouldn't be a continual tease and then shut it all down in the name of her faith.
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:07 PM
 
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Sounds like someone isn't being a true Christian.

I guess it's too much not to have it.
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:13 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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Originally Posted by Befuddled63 View Post
I am 50 and my girlfriend is 46. We've been dating six months. She is a Christian and does not want to have premarital sex of any kind though there has been heavy petting. I'm actually okay with this and can respect it, being raised in a Christian home. I also like someone who's a little more conservative in these areas.

On several occasions, she has initiated racy conversations over the telephone and some borderline phone sex.

Not that I completely mind this, but I'm just confused. Is this normal? I've never had this happen before, especially from a Christian girl!

Is this someone who's stable?
accept it for what it is. let have her beliefs and fun without judgement. you will be better off not trying to figure it out. go with it.
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:16 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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She's a 46 year old Christian woman who doesn't "believe in" premarital sex. Is she also a virgin?
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Sounds like someone isn't being a true Christian.

I guess it's too much not to have it.
Eh bible thumpers are the worst. Sexual pent up desires told they are from the devil!
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She's a 46 year old Christian woman who doesn't "believe in" premarital sex. Is she also a virgin?
They only pet each other.
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