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The fact you are okay with staying with him, and him having his phone out at all during sex tells me you have no respect for yourself. Two years or not you deserve better. It's time to move on. I mean he was looking at his phone. He had no interest in pleasing you in any way it's all about him, and his wants and needs.
To put things into perspective here a bit.
Not EVERY woman enjoys or even pleases her bf in every potential intimate method out there.
That being said, your intimacy and privacy and required undivided attention with your guy is being completely disregarded.
I know very very few people that would even THINK about their cell phone in a time like that.
Moving forward, if the bf ever grabbed his cell phone while being intimate, STOP being intimate, get dressed and leave. IMMEDIATELY. No fun for the d-bag. And then communicate that if he ever touches his phone again during private time, the relationship would absolutely be OVER.
Seriously, sorry, but the bf here is a d-bag for even touching his phone.
It amazes me the things some people get away with.
And OP, moving forward you will have to trust that the bf deleted the video, or just concede to the fact that the bf has at least one video of you, and most likely, there is little you can do about the 'old' videos.
Yeah... hate to freak you out, OP, but if he did take a photo or video of you..er.. in the act, you don't know if he's shared that with other people. Even if he deleted it from his phone, it could already be out there.
It would be different if he was taking a video with your knowledge and consent for you two to enjoy privately. But if he was taking it secretly so he could share it with OTHER PEOPLE, there is no respect in this relationship. You are not his girlfriend, you are a piece of meat.
It would be different if he was taking a video with your knowledge and consent for you two to enjoy privately. But if he was taking it secretly so he could share it with OTHER PEOPLE, there is no respect in this relationship. You are not his girlfriend, you are a piece of meat.
Exactly. A guy who would do this without is ladies consent has no respect for her AT ALL.
wait... how is it ok for him to get out his phone and do whatever in the middle of having any type of sex, unless he is recieving an exepected important call?
Am i the only one who'd get pissed if a partner took out his phone to set an alarm or watch some stupid text/pic whatever in the middle of giving that partner oral?
How does guys like this keep their GFs? seriously?
wait... how is it ok for him to get out his phone and do whatever in the middle of having any type of sex, unless he is recieving an exepected important call?
Am i the only one who'd get pissed if a partner took out his phone to set an alarm or watch some stupid text/pic whatever in the middle of giving that partner oral?
How does guys like this keep their GFs? seriously?
I get a little miffed when a date takes out his cell phone in the middle of a dinner date! It's rude. I would think a man taking out a phone in the middle of sex is a good reason to do what another poster suggested, get up and walk out of the room.
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