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Old 08-19-2013, 12:52 AM
 
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It's actually really hard being single sometimes, and I definitely know what the perks are to being single. But in the movies, the hero is usually portrayed being alone, figuring things out for themselves. Sometimes they'll fall for someone and kiss or sleep with them, then they're on their way. Hm... maybe it's because they always use sexy guys for the hero.
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Old 08-19-2013, 01:03 AM
 
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Being single is an absolute night mare, there is no way I could get sex when I wanted it and HOW I wanted it unless I am in a relationship. Only the hottest of hot guys can get away with that behavior. I could even forgo sex for a while if it was because I was busy choosing which one of the 10 women I wanted who were lined up just itching to drop their pants for me, it would be worth putting off sex for a bit to carefully choose which woman I wanted.

But just being single where most women snub their noses to you and you cant get sex without a hooker and there is no end in sight, its not a good time.

There were 2 women in wal mart today that smiled at me, pretty sure there was interest but its been 7 months since I got divorced and was celibate for 2 months before the divorce so had I not started going with my gf right after the divorce that would put me at almost a year being celibate before I got a smile at wal mart, sorry not holding out for that lol.
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Old 08-19-2013, 01:05 AM
 
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Being single is an absolute night mare, there is no way I could get sex when I wanted it and HOW I wanted it unless I am in a relationship. Only the hottest of hot guys can get away with that behavior. I could even forgo sex for a while if it was because I was busy choosing which one of the 10 women I wanted who were lined up just itching to drop their pants for me, it would be worth putting off sex for a bit to carefully choose which woman I wanted.

But just being single where most women snub their noses to you and you cant get sex without a hooker and there is no end in sight, its not a good time.

There were 2 women in wal mart today that smiled at me, pretty sure there was interest but its been 7 months since I got divorced and was celibate for 2 months before the divorce so had I not started going with my gf right after the divorce that would put me at almost a year being celibate before I got a smile at wal mart, sorry not holding out for that lol.

man, that's depressing.
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Old 08-19-2013, 01:11 AM
 
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man, that's depressing.
Yea it is, luckily we don't live forever and I can usually lower the bar enough to find someone to be reasonably happy with. I was unaware of this situation until I was about 21, I never got attention in high school but did not give it much thought, it was not until I graduated college that I wondered what the heck was going on. I was in the best shape of my life and had everything going for me and had to scrape the bottom of the barrel for women.

Fortunatly all men are not in this boat, some men get women who are hanging off them so they develop confidence early in life. I have never been with a woman sexually who weighted less than 200lbs, had I "held out", I would have ended up a 40 year old virgin and that's not acceptable to me.
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Old 08-19-2013, 01:12 AM
 
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Being single is an absolute night mare, there is no way I could get sex when I wanted it and HOW I wanted it unless I am in a relationship.
Unless "how you want it" is with new and different people, rather than the same person over and over. That kind is much easier to get when you're not in a relationship.
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Old 08-19-2013, 01:17 AM
 
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Unless "how you want it" is with new and different people, rather than the same person over and over. That kind is much easier to get when you're not in a relationship.
I have some kinky things im into, but love having the same person to do it with over and over. The last 2 wives I had claimed to be into it and did it with me for 4 years then flipped out and left, there were other non sexual factors that were at play as well but the first thing they attacked was the kink I was into to try to "save the marriage", so I basically had to give up what got me off that they had been doing for 4 years to "save the marriage". I was settling with them in the first place because they claimed to be into what I was into otherwise I could have raised the bar a point or 2 if all I wanted was vanilla sex. There are probably hotties who are into kink as well but I never found them.
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Old 08-19-2013, 05:47 AM
 
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Another person relating movies to real life.

Oi.
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Old 08-19-2013, 06:46 AM
 
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You watch too much movies.

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Old 08-19-2013, 07:25 AM
 
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FYI....just because you are in a relationship does not mean a steady supply of sex.

I think it was Jeff Foxworthy that said. "Getting married just to get sex is like buying a jet to get free peanuts."
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Old 08-19-2013, 08:38 AM
 
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