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Old 08-22-2013, 03:51 PM
 
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Well, from what I have seen, what BigDGeek says is completely accurate. I have yet to run into a male that isn't out for one thing, has no means of income at all or can't get past the fact I'm not friggin' Jessica Alba.

As for the original question, it ties in with what I said above...even after losing 40 lbs, I've now come to the conclusion that I'm just to Plain Jane or ugly because my body is not longer a problem. So yes, I feel that I will always be single.
It's the men you interact with.

I can tell you that I do not play games with people in any way.
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Old 08-22-2013, 04:05 PM
 
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I think everyone's answer to OP's question should be accompanied by their age. Because that factor will directly influence your answer.
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Old 08-22-2013, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Never know. I just hope for the best.
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:15 PM
 
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I think everyone's answer to OP's question should be accompanied by their age. Because that factor will directly influence your answer.
i'm in my early 30s fwiw.
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:19 PM
 
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.....not because you are picky nor anything like that. Do you feel you're not good looking enough, financial situation isn't stable enough, too fat, too skinny, etc....


If you feel as if you'll always be single, why do you feel this way?
This means the person will be Single with this attitude.

There are things you can control like looking better, getting in better financial situation.
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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.....not because you are picky nor anything like that. Do you feel you're not good looking enough, financial situation isn't stable enough, too fat, too skinny, etc....


If you feel as if you'll always be single, why do you feel this way?
No.
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Old 08-22-2013, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Big Bear City, CA
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I'll say yes mainly from the fact that I'm timid around strangers. I consider myself to be an average person. I've never had anyone tell me I'm ugly, and due to some past instances I do have issues opening up to people. It typically takes a while for me to trust someone before I can talk about more personal things.

I'll tell ya it does affect me at bit at times. In fact a couple days ago I got a little depressed from this very issue. Being an introvert at heart, yet yearning to find someone isn't easy at all. My mind just has this constant conflict of distancing myself from others, yet at the same time I want the exact opposite as well. It makes me really confused as to what I really want in my life.

In the end, I do feel I'll end up single until I get help, but I'm too lazy to go out and get it. Hah!

I'll be turning 29 in approximately 2 weeks for those interested in my age.
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Old 08-22-2013, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Windham County, VT
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I'll say yes mainly from the fact that I'm timid around strangers. I consider myself to be an average person. I've never had anyone tell me I'm ugly, and due to some past instances I do have issues opening up to people. It typically takes a while for me to trust someone before I can talk about more personal things.

I'll tell ya it does affect me at bit at times. In fact a couple days ago I got a little depressed from this very issue. Being an introvert at heart, yet yearning to find someone isn't easy at all. My mind just has this constant conflict of distancing myself from others, yet at the same time I want the exact opposite as well. It makes me really confused as to what I really want in my life.

In the end, I do feel I'll end up single until I get help, but I'm too lazy to go out and get it. Hah!

I'll be turning 29 in approximately 2 weeks for those interested in my age.
I sympathize. I can't stand people, generally, but I absolutely want to have one special person in my life,
and sorting through meeting/getting to know a bunch of people in order to find "a keeper" is agony (I'm an introvert, too).
And for demographic purposes, I'm 40 yrs. old
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Old 08-22-2013, 09:49 PM
 
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I believe all Marshmallow PEEPS will remain single forever, humans on the other hand will eventually find a partner if that is what they really want.
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Old 08-23-2013, 02:24 AM
 
Location: SNA=>PDX 2013
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I believe all Marshmallow PEEPS will remain single forever, humans on the other hand will eventually find a partner if that is what they really want.
But aren't 5 of them "together"? If you leave them alone, how can they be forever single?
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