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Old 08-19-2013, 07:17 PM
 
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Maybe you missed it?

He's scared of sex - doesn't WANT to be attracted to girls.

He is looking for advice on how NOT to notice them and how to stop thinking about them.
seriously, I know what he said and I know reality as well because I lived his life (though it was just for my BS in engineering so the OP may be a little sharper than me). You dont just turn that switch off once its on without messing up your body.

I should not have to explain this. Also if he did not have women comming on to him before his switch came on which he woudl have noticed then there is a high probability he will have to lower his standards quite a bit (or perhaps they are already low which would make his life easy) to scratch that itch.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:22 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I should not have to explain this. Also if he did not have women comming on to him before his switch came on which he woudl have noticed then there is a high probability he will have to lower his standards quite a bit (or perhaps they are already low which would make his life easy) to scratch that itch.
This is totally irrelevant to the OP! You're off-topic again. OP doesn't want to scratch the itch. Go start your own thread, if you can't stay on topic.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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This is totally irrelevant to the OP! You're off-topic again. OP doesn't want to scratch the itch. Go start your own thread, if you can't stay on topic.
Agreed.

The OP makes it VERY CLEAR, he is scared of sex, embarrassed by the thought of being naked with a woman. He is all about denying his natural feelings out of that fear.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:31 PM
 
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Agreed.

The OP makes it VERY CLEAR, he is scared of sex, embarrassed by the thought of being naked with a woman. He is all about denying his natural feelings out of that fear.
I enjoyed the life I had before. Being scared or embarrassed wasn't even an issue. Uni, the gym, my hobbies and pets were all that mattered.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:32 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I enjoyed the life I had before. Being scared or embarrassed wasn't even an issue. Uni, the gym, my hobbies and pets were all that mattered.
Well, guess what? You're not a child anymore. You just passed the final threshold into adulthood. It means learning to handle your hormones.

Where did you say you live, again?
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:33 PM
 
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I enjoyed the life I had before. Being scared or embarrassed wasn't even an issue. Uni, the gym, my hobbies and pets were all that mattered.
Well of course. As Ruth said, your testosterone hadn't kicked into full gear yet.

Like I said earlier in this thread - noticing girls and feeling attracted to them is NORMAL.

To deny that is not healthy.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:37 PM
 
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Well, guess what? You're not a child anymore. You just passed the final threshold into adulthood. It means learning to handle your hormones.

Where did you say you live, again?
I might have to research on how to lower the testosterone levels then. But it can't interfere with the gym.

I live in the EU. Why does matter?

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Well of course. As Ruth said, your testosterone hadn't kicked into full gear yet.

Like I said earlier in this thread - noticing girls and feeling attracted to them is NORMAL.

To deny that is not healthy.
But girls mean ruining the good life I had. I see what my friends go through with their girlfriends. Therefore I have to find ways to erradicate it.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I might have to research on how to lower the testosterone levels then. But it can't interfere with the gym.

I live in the EU. Why does matter?



But girls mean ruining the good life I had. I see what my friends go through with their girlfriends. Therefore I have to find ways to erradicate it.
Grow a spine and be able say no to women. No one can make you do anything with women. If I as a horny virgin can turn women down, damn it you can too.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I might have to research on how to lower the testosterone levels then. But it can't interfere with the gym.

I live in the EU. Why does matter?



But girls mean ruining the good life I had. I see what my friends go through with their girlfriends. Therefore I have to find ways to erradicate it.
If you are for real, then I have extreme pity for you because someone somewhere really did a number on your head
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:47 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I might have to research on how to lower the testosterone levels then. But it can't interfere with the gym.

I live in the EU. Why does matter?



But girls mean ruining the good life I had. I see what my friends go through with their girlfriends. Therefore I have to find ways to erradicate it.
Wow. Just wow.
How much longer do you have in your MA program? Maybe you only have 1 year left to go. You can manage to discipline and focus your mind for 1 year. Take up meditation. It helps you learn to focus your attention on whatever you want, and tune out extraneous thoughts.

Germany? Scandinavia? Just curious.
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