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Old 08-20-2013, 10:15 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Oh. Well - who cares? Geez! I can't imagine a day in the life of WestPhillyDude...

"Can you believe that guy asked me if I wanted FRIES with that!!! If I had wanted fries, I would have ordered FRIES!!!"
"Can you believe the cab driver asked me where I was going! It's not any of his business where I'm going!"
"Can you believe that woman said excuse me when she bumped into me! The NERVE!"

can you believe it's so many player haters on this site??
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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Oh. Well - who cares? Geez! I can't imagine a day in the life of WestPhillyDude...

"Can you believe that guy asked me if I wanted FRIES with that!!! If I had wanted fries, I would have ordered FRIES!!!"
"Can you believe the cab driver asked me where I was going! It's not any of his business where I'm going!"
"Can you believe that woman said excuse me when she bumped into me! The NERVE!"

What you typed is funny...cause it's true....
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:17 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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can you believe it's so many player haters on this site??
I can't even begin to decipher that...
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:22 AM
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I can't even begin to decipher that...

can you believe most haters can't decipher?
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Nope can't do it.


Just like it was another girl who wanted to come over my place but I found her mother is one of my clients. Which means I can date anyone who has a connection to my job
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DECLINE??? lol


I don't think it's waste for me to PLAY or DATE anyone who has a connection to my job and that's why I told her I have to pass at this time because I am off the market. Plus the woman didn't give me any information about the person like how old she is, what she looks like, or her body size. So even if I was thinking about it I have no info anyway.


But is it always best to say no to this type of situation?
I'm confused. The blue and red--not sure what you mean. Do you mean you declined only because you're off the market or did you tell her that only because you don't want to get involved with anyone related to your job? Are you AGAINST dating anyone who may somehow have a connection with your job and/or co-workers?

She wouldn't have given you that much information about the friend without knowing if you were interested or not. I'm not going to go into 15 minutes of details only for you to say "no".
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:36 AM
 
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It depends on how much you like you job I guess,
I'd risk my current job for getting laid, but if I had a more career-making job I guess I'd wanna keep personal and professional life apart completely.
Then it also depends on your coworker, is he/she the type who'll take his/hers friends side, let whatever the outcome is effect the professional relation or is this a reasonable coworker who will just have refered you to each other and then stays clear about whatever goes on...
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:41 AM
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I'm confused. The blue and red--not sure what you mean. Do you mean you declined only because you're off the market or did you tell her that only because you don't want to get involved with anyone related to your job? Are you AGAINST dating anyone who may somehow have a connection with your job and/or co-workers?

She wouldn't have given you that much information about the friend without knowing if you were interested or not. I'm not going to go into 15 minutes of details only for you to say "no".

I mean to say WISE not WASTE


And yes why would anyone want to get involved with someone who has a connection to their job? Esspecially when it's no guarantee that it will work out
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:44 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I mean to say WISE not WASTE


And yes why would anyone want to get involved with someone who has a connection to their job? Esspecially when it's no guarantee that it will work out
Well, I married a coworker...
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:48 AM
 
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I mean to say WISE not WASTE


And yes why would anyone want to get involved with someone who has a connection to their job? Esspecially when it's no guarantee that it will work out
It's a friend of a coworker though. I don't see that as a major connection. Do you always ask the women you meet whether they might happen to be friends with anyone at your job?
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Old 08-20-2013, 10:53 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Personally I don't date coworkers or anyone close to them so I'd say no thanks. You do know how to say no without help, do ya?
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