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There's nothing wrong with being a BBW. I like them big, curvy girls. You should be proud of it.
Well, you're curious. I have uploaded a picture. I'm going to take it down soon. I'm not here for this kind of game.
However, I want to prove you wrong. Just because someone doesn't show their body, doesn't mean they're obese and they're ashamed of themselves. What a narrow-minded and simplistic view you have.
Even if I had thunder thighs, I don't think it's an excuse to make fun of someone.
You should really stop using self-deprecation as a defense mechanism. Also, you're easily manipulated. It took me two posts to get you to put up a new pic.
You should really stop using self-deprecation as a defense mechanism. Also, you're easily manipulated. It took me two posts to get you to put up a new pic.
I knew you were going to say this, oddly enough. How am I using self-depreciation as a defense mechanism?
I just stated I looked gross. That's a fact.
And yes, I did post a picture after two posts, so what? You do really believe you manipulated me into posting this picture?
I would hope so. So, a quick psychoanalysis, based off the second pic you provided. You're a fairly uptight person. You have been raised to conform to strict standards and it is those standards that prevent you from living your own life, pursuing your own dreams and basically having a mind of your own. Therefore your mechanisms of critical thinking have been stunted and you tend to be a follower rather than a leader. Perhaps men sense this. Men like a challenge, and you simply don't offer that.
I knew you were going to say this, oddly enough. How am I using self-depreciation as a defense mechanism?
I just stated I looked gross. That's a fact.
You are attractive and easily above average in the looks department. And you'd get most people on this forum or anywhere else to confirm that.
You got a twisted template from childhood. I understand that and know that you currently see things through that lens.
What you don't want is to get stuck on getting this confirmation from others though for the rest of your life. That is a possibility.
But, at any rate, you would benefit from taking a walk (or stay seated in a place with lots of people cruising by) through a shopping mall or other venue with lots of people around to observe. For a couple of hours, check out people in their 20's and rate them. Just write numbers down the left column of a page in a notebook and add a 1 to 10 rating next to each person you see who fits the age-range criterion. You may get to look at about a hundred people, if you live in a crowded area, and that is a good sample.
Just do that and you're going to discover something interesting.
Well Nolita, if I were you I'd be flattered that I was getting this reaction. Honestly though, I think that you know deep down inside that you're beautiful or you wouldn't be posting pix on here. Now just go work on those social skills and you'll be fine.
You based this analysis on the way I'm dressed? I think so.
Now, you're right when you say that I was raised to conform to strict standards. That was part of my strict upbringing.
However, I definitely broke free from these standards a while back after my first round of therapy sessions. Not all of them though.
I'm not a leader, it's very true. I'm not a loud person. You're very right.
When you say "men like a challenge" what do you mean?
You don't want to show your body because the girl you stole the pic from on google or photobucket doesn't have one available.
Can't bullsh*t a bullshi**er
I have the picture up on my profile. There's no Tumblr/Google/Photobucket girl.
Stop trying to make me look like a troll when I'm sure you know I'm not one.
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