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Have you ever experienced something in the middle of or even at the beginning of a sexual encounter that has instantly killed the mood?
I had been dating this one gal and after spending a nice evening at her home with some wine we started getting quite hot and heavy on the couch. It was dimly lit by the T.V. and the clothes started to come off. Things were going great until my hands slid down her back on my way to her booty when I came across a rather course patch of hair right above her crack. Needless to say when I made that unpleasant discovery I avoided that area as much as I could but little by little the mood had been killed by this unpleasant discovery. I hate to sound shallow like that but it grossed me out.
Anyone ever have something similar happen? What did you do?
We were getting a little frisky and he decided to be a 'big man' and throw me down on the bed (we were sitting at the time). Well, he misjudged the distance and smacked my head on the wall behind the bed. Naturally, I started laughing hysterically, his face turned bright red and the mood was just shot after that.
It's still funny though.
I have yet to encounter anything physically that has 'killed the mood', it's basically just been actions. People are flawed creatures and being snippy about things they may have no control over is just silly IMO.
We were getting a little frisky and he decided to be a 'big man' and throw me down on the bed (we were sitting at the time). Well, he misjudged the distance and smacked my head on the wall behind the bed. Naturally, I started laughing hysterically, his face turned bright red and the mood was just shot after that.
It's still funny though.
That would have just gotten me more excited. Laughter is important. Your having a sore head would have allowed me to practice my "accupuncture" if you get my drift. At least that would have been my story.
That would have just gotten me more excited. Laughter is important.
I agree, but he has anxiety regarding being intimate and hadn't had sex in a few years... so it was just embarrassing and spiked his anxiety. Of course, me laughing about it didn't help, but after I explained that I was laughing at the ridiculous situation and not him (and the fact that we're both utterly and completely hopeless when it comes to sexy times) he understood a bit better.
It was also our first time going that far together, and obviously it didn't go any further than that.
Lets just say Im am advocate for showers before sex. In fact, I insist.
Just have sex in the shower . with my next GF I want shower sex so I can do a R Kelly and she will never know
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