Christian Advice (married, woman, older, kiss)

[newncharlotte3]

A woman from my fiances past has resurfaced and is now sending me emails. Her goal is to destruct and cause problems in my home. They have a child together and she has used the child to try and hurt us both by keeping him from us. Mostly me. He and I also have a young child together and both children are suffering due to her actions. What's a woman to do?

[Weedydidi]

I'm taking this to PM

[XNYgirl]

What advice are you looking for?

[Ms.Charlotte]

Originally Posted by newncharlotte3

A woman from my fiances past has resurfaced and is now sending me emails. Her goal is to destruct and cause problems in my home. They have a child together and she has used the child to try and hurt us both by keeping him from us. Mostly me. He and I also have a young child together and both children are suffering due to her actions. What's a woman to do?

You need to post this on the Christianity sub-forum. Just go to Religion/Philosophy and go to the sub-forum from there.

[NCaprio83]

Why does this need to be Christian advice?

[Granny Sue]

Originally Posted by newncharlotte3

A woman from my fiances past has resurfaced and is now sending me emails. Her goal is to destruct and cause problems in my home. They have a child together and she has used the child to try and hurt us both by keeping him from us. Mostly me. He and I also have a young child together and both children are suffering due to her actions. What's a woman to do?

Just mature person advise will do on this one.
Take to upper road. Block her e-mails. Do not respond to her evilness.
Do not do anything to help her meet her goal. Do not even subconciously blame it on or take it out on your fiancee. It's hard on him too
NEVER EVER talk bad about her to either child. Give them extra hugs and kisses..your fiancee too.
As for keeping the child from his father, his father needs to handle that legally.
As the child gets older he will figure out the truth. As for your child, there is really no reason he or she really has to be exposed to her.

I'm not saying you are doing any of the above, but please keep them in mind.

Stay stong!!

[HIF]

Originally Posted by newncharlotte3

A woman from my fiances past has resurfaced and is now sending me emails. Her goal is to destruct and cause problems in my home. They have a child together and she has used the child to try and hurt us both by keeping him from us. Mostly me. He and I also have a young child together and both children are suffering due to her actions. What's a woman to do?

If she has a child by him, she's not in the past. You'll have to live with her for years. And if you have a child by him and are not married, then I would begin to save some money. I hate to be so upfront, but he doesn't have the best track record and the odds are against your relationship with him working under the best of circumstances.

Change your e-mail address and the two of you should get counseling for your child's sake.