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Ughh...I hate my life right now. It's over and has been for a while. Right now I'm pretty much wasting time trying to figure out where it went wrong. Long story short, she flaked. I actually got a text that said "you act like you're not interested"...that is so far from the truth. I'm thinking she rejected me because she thought I was hanging out with her just to be nice. It's almost like she completely ignored the one time I did kiss her.
I'm out of college and back in the house conducting a job search. Being in the house is torture. My romantic prospects are pretty much zippo until I find a job. Yes, I am being a whiny, oversensitive little girl but I can't help it. At least I learned something.
Ughh...I hate my life right now. It's over and has been for a while. Right now I'm pretty much wasting time trying to figure out where it went wrong. Long story short, she flaked. I actually got a text that said "you act like you're not interested"...that is so far from the truth. I'm thinking she rejected me because she thought I was hanging out with her just to be nice. It's almost like she completely ignored the one time I did kiss her.
I'm out of college and back in the house conducting a job search. Being in the house is torture. My romantic prospects are pretty much zippo until I find a job. Yes, I am being a whiny, oversensitive little girl but I can't help it. At least I learned something.
Ummm. I have GOT to know how you responded to that text.
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No, a lot of guys don't mind waiting. It just gets you nowhere. So they've learned better. Hence all the "nice guy" talk that you hate so much, which, as this type of situation shows, actually has a lot of truth to it, whether you like it or not.
Depends on what you mean by 'nowhere'. If you think getting laid is the absolute only reason to talk to a woman or date one or be in a relationship with one then yes, being a decent person would go nowhere. The guy I'm dating now is a genuinely good man which I'm honestly having a lot of trouble with because they're like unicorns and I really don't know how to act around him.
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I don't think a slt would make much sense there. Prude would.
When people have sex on the first date with you its hard not to wonder if thats how most of their first dates go..
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As someone who had a horrible reputation as a slvt when I was, in fact, a virgin, I'll disagree. Many men love putting the slvt label on women who turn them down for sex. It's a huge insult for many women and they want to soothe their bruised egos by insulting her.
But then he'd have been taking a chance that she'd refuse to meet him again, based on him making a move prematurely.
A. Women prefer take charge guys who occasionally run the risk of over stepping their bounds in going after what they want. Let's call it "ambition" for fun.
B. Women prefer guys with milquetoast decision-making skills who are afraid to take a shot.
Doesn't matter. He'd already blown it and she'd already made up her mind about him. Game over. Move on to the next one.
I dunno. I'd be fairly amazed at anyone who based an entire decision about whether to go out with someone again on one evening where he didn't jump her.
Oh, hell no. There's more to that story. If she was determined to get laid, she would've made obvious moves.
And, no. Watching TV in bed, on top of the covers, with no other available TV in the house is not "making a move."
If she thought it was, she's an idiot.
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A. Women prefer take charge guys who occasionally run the risk of over stepping their bounds in going after what they want. Let's call it "ambition" for fun.
B. Women prefer guys with milquetoast decision-making skills who are afraid to take a shot.
Okay - lets vote.
You've painted men into two very distinct boxes.
Not attacking one's date the 2nd time you go out hardly qualifies as milquetoast behavior.
Damn. Has dating turned into a caveman, drag her by the hair sort of activity?
I say this as someone who has had sex on the first date, btw. It really just depends on the situation.
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