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Old 09-03-2013, 04:44 PM
 
Location: The High Seas
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Well if he isn't married or already in a relationship, my advice is to be dishonest and make him think other men are interested in you. Once he thinks that you have other suitors, he will step up his game.

Is he truly interested in you, or just trying to get some tail? I still think he's married or in a long term relationship.
Whenever this done to "get my attention", I just handed the same story back to them and called it a day. I can't speak for all men, but I'm definitely not into game-playing.
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Old 09-03-2013, 04:49 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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There's no magical way to keep someone interested. Either he likes you enough to want to be around you or he doesn't. But when you only see each other once a month and you just started dating, that's not going to help matters. The two of you need to make more of an effort to see each other or both of you should just focus on your priorities and other people who are more available.
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Old 09-03-2013, 05:25 PM
 
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We have been seeing each other for 3 months and although I know he is busy...
I don't want him to lose interest like every other guy I have been with has only seemed to be interested until the 3 month deadline...
But this one is different, he is special, we have onl been able to see each other every 3-4 weeks because we are busy, Especially him!!! But I'm just as busy,
Anyways most of our communication is txt so how would I keep him interested and excited to see me?(non sexual for this) but he does seem distant but it's probably how busy and tired he is, and me just overthinking it
(I always ask him how he is going but I don't want to be too clingy, I'm at a moderated level- I hope)
So any suggestions?? thanks!!
Texting never works.

Find time to be together face to face.
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Old 09-03-2013, 05:55 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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We have been seeing each other for 3 months and although I know he is busy...
I don't want him to lose interest like every other guy I have been with has only seemed to be interested until the 3 month deadline...
But this one is different, he is special, we have onl been able to see each other every 3-4 weeks because we are busy, Especially him!!! But I'm just as busy,
Anyways most of our communication is txt so how would I keep him interested and excited to see me?(non sexual for this) but he does seem distant but it's probably how busy and tired he is, and me just overthinking it
(I always ask him how he is going but I don't want to be too clingy, I'm at a moderated level- I hope)
So any suggestions?? thanks!!
Seeing each other every 3-4 weeks for 3 months is four dates. Do you live far apart?
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