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Old 09-14-2013, 10:40 PM
 
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Emotionally detached women are at high risk.

You can only tell a woman "I love you" so many times and get nothing in return...

You can only go to the basement to beat off so many times because she falls asleep watching E.

You can only go out to get something to eat so many times cuz she cooks like s***.


Not saying it's right, but I'd explore that avenue if I was the woman WONDERING.

I know guys who haven't touched their wives in years.

She won't even let them kiss her.







Here's YOUR SIGN!!

*Bonk*
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Old 09-14-2013, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Emotionally detached women are at high risk.

You can only tell a woman "I love you" so many times and get nothing in return...

You can only go to the basement to beat off so many times because she falls asleep watching E.

You can only go out to get something to eat so many times cuz she cooks like s***.


Not saying it's right, but I'd explore that avenue if I was the woman WONDERING.

I know guys who haven't touched their wives in years.

She won't even let them kiss her.







Here's YOUR SIGN!!

*Bonk*

that's depressing lol
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Old 09-14-2013, 11:31 PM
 
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that's depressing lol
Funny too! lol

I'm creative. lol
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Old 09-15-2013, 03:18 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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Poverty is not a 100 percent effective deterrent but it is the most effective deterrent.
I'm not quite sure what you are trying to convey here. I could find you a million welfare mothers who have been cheated on, but I'm guessing that's not your intent?


Men (generally) tend to cheat when they feel unappreciated in the relationship. Of course there are exceptions, the guy with the overdeveloped ego, the guy who loves the chase etc. etc. Those types will cheat on nearly ANY woman they are involved with.

Women (generally) tend to cheat when they feel an emotional disconnect from their partner. Again, plenty of exceptions there also.

There really isn't a 'foolproof' deterrent, because that would be an external factor. Cheating is, and always will be, an internal decision.
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Old 09-15-2013, 11:53 AM
 
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How do you know if someone is a cheater until they cheat on you? This is why I never understood the "well don't date cheaters" argument
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Old 09-16-2013, 06:26 AM
 
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How do you know if someone is a cheater until they cheat on you? This is why I never understood the "well don't date cheaters" argument
The character and integrity they show in the rest of their life.
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Old 09-16-2013, 06:34 AM
 
Location: My House
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The character and integrity they show in the rest of their life.
That might help you weed out some sketchy types, but I doubt it really makes a huge difference.
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Old 09-16-2013, 07:38 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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Because all sorts of people get cheated on. Attractive ones/ugly ones, Rich people poor people, people who are very clingy to their partner/people who are distant etc.

So my question is do you think there is any type of effective deterrent to cheating?
Treat your partner with respect. Do the maintenance. Too many men and women get married and think their obligation to keep the fire going ends there. There are people who cheat because they can and there are those who cheat because their needs are not being met. We don't commit to stop being intimate. Short of illness on my end, I would fully expect my partner to stray if I didn't do my part.
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Old 09-16-2013, 07:54 AM
 
Location: Melbourne, Australia
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There's two options:

Stop giving a toss about whether your SO cheats

Choose someone who isn't likely to cheat

Lock them in your basement and never let them out


None are guaranteed, but hey, take it or leave it.
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Old 09-16-2013, 08:40 AM
 
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Emotionally detached women are at high risk.

You can only tell a woman "I love you" so many times and get nothing in return...

You can only go to the basement to beat off so many times because she falls asleep watching E.

You can only go out to get something to eat so many times cuz she cooks like s***.
So having a wife who can't cook leads men to cheat?
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