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Old 05-19-2014, 03:46 PM
 
Location: NY
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Maybe got hurt somewhere along the line in his life and didn't feel like taking any more risks.
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Old 05-19-2014, 04:12 PM
 
Location: California
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ive never heard him talk of a special woman in his life (or man for that matter) and at first i tbougbt he was just very private; but after four years Im thinking this co-worker is gay....the guy is about 56 and his only interest seems to be golf once a week and then a drinkfest after with his buddies at the club what do you think gay or no gay?
Who knows and who cares. He is what he is.
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Old 05-20-2014, 12:03 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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It's none of your business. Get a life instead of worrying about his.
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Old 05-20-2014, 02:33 AM
 
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ive never heard him talk of a special woman in his life (or man for that matter) and at first i tbougbt he was just very private; but after four years Im thinking this co-worker is gay....the guy is about 56 and his only interest seems to be golf once a week and then a drinkfest after with his buddies at the club what do you think gay or no gay?
He could be. But NOTHING you have listed on this thread so far suggests it or would evidence it for me.

If I were you however - I would be more interested in why I care - why I think it is my business - or why I am preoccupied with it in any way.
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Old 05-20-2014, 04:14 AM
 
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ive never heard him talk of a special woman in his life (or man for that matter) and at first i tbougbt he was just very private; but after four years Im thinking this co-worker is gay....the guy is about 56 and his only interest seems to be golf once a week and then a drinkfest after with his buddies at the club what do you think gay or no gay?
Sounds smart. Also, he's got more money than he would have otherwise.

And, if he is gay do you win a prize?
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Old 05-20-2014, 04:36 AM
 
Location: I don't know..If you find me, let me know.
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No he is the most happiest person in the world...
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Old 05-20-2014, 07:51 AM
 
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ive never heard him talk of a special woman in his life (or man for that matter) and at first i tbougbt he was just very private; but after four years Im thinking this co-worker is gay....the guy is about 56 and his only interest seems to be golf once a week and then a drinkfest after with his buddies at the club what do you think gay or no gay?

I think he is damn right sensible, wise and unaffected by the brainwashing of conventionality that most men fall for in this day and age. His lifestyle sounds relaxed and free.


Perhaps your inability to understand a man living without seeking female validation is the problem. If he is gay then he still remains free so...

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Old 05-20-2014, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Perhaps he has decided too just never marry. You realize he will be in the majority in ten years in the USA. No incentive to marry in your country with your divorce laws being so biased. Will be interesting how the birth rate falls as less men enter into long term relationships. Didn't the feminists want to destroy marriage? Looks like its working
Ain't that the truth.................
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Old 05-20-2014, 09:06 AM
 
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Ummm why do you care?
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Old 05-20-2014, 11:41 AM
 
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Its just an example of social shaming, to pressure guys who are smart enough to stay the hell away from women. Women do it all the time, its disgusting imo.

Oh, so you mean you dont want to marry someine, who few years later will ruin your life, make you a wage slave and take away your kids, because sittng on a couch and eating potato chips all day while watching oprah simply doesnt make them happy anymore? Whats wrong with you? Whats your defect? Or perhaps youre gay?
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