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Old 09-09-2013, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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There are plenty of women who go out specifically to get hit on and flirt or hook up. Plenty. But NOT ALL OF THEM DO.

That's the point, which is just impossible for some guys to get.
It goes both ways, some girls assume that because a guy is at the club and staring in her direction he must want her.
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Old 09-09-2013, 08:12 PM
 
Location: In the middle.
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Yeah, I went out in a pair of jeans and a high cut loose tshirt with no makeup on, glasses and my hair in a ponytail to get hit on. Yep. That's exactly what I did.

I'm sorry you just can't fathom it, but some women don't like being bothered. I was there to hang out with my sister and cousin and get free drinks because there were several clubs that had free drink specials., that was it.

And having a drunk guy dressed like some Jersey Shore reject stumble up to me and say 'nice ****' isn't exactly something I'm going to blush and giggle over.
Going to a meat market atmosphere and expecting to not have to deal with the associated attitudes and behaviors found there is a bit ridiculous though. It's a nightclub, not a Starbucks.
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Old 09-09-2013, 08:22 PM
 
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Yeah, I went out in a pair of jeans and a high cut loose tshirt with no makeup on, glasses and my hair in a ponytail to get hit on. Yep. That's exactly what I did.

I'm sorry you just can't fathom it, but some women don't like being bothered. I was there to hang out with my sister and cousin and get free drinks because there were several clubs that had free drink specials., that was it.

And having a drunk guy dressed like some Jersey Shore reject stumble up to me and say 'nice ****' isn't exactly something I'm going to blush and giggle over.

You are right jetjockey but then again if you hang out in a slaughter house dont be surprised if someone comes at you with a meat cleaver....loosely translated, if you put yourself in that kind of environment you can pretty much expect to get hit on by d**che bags. If you (or any girl) does not like being bothered why go there.....why not just find a more laid back (adult) place with free drinks. BTW jersey shore reject...Good one, that was funny.
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Old 09-09-2013, 08:30 PM
 
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Yeah, I went out in a pair of jeans and a high cut loose tshirt with no makeup on, glasses and my hair in a ponytail to get hit on. Yep. That's exactly what I did.

I'm sorry you just can't fathom it, but some women don't like being bothered. I was there to hang out with my sister and cousin and get free drinks because there were several clubs that had free drink specials., that was it.

And having a drunk guy dressed like some Jersey Shore reject stumble up to me and say 'nice ****' isn't exactly something I'm going to blush and giggle over.
What "clubs" let you in dressed like that?
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Old 09-09-2013, 08:31 PM
 
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What "clubs" let you in dressed like that?
Dress codes are usually meant for dudes. Ladies can get away with a lot more.
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Old 09-09-2013, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Going to a meat market atmosphere and expecting to not have to deal with the associated attitudes and behaviors found there is a bit ridiculous though. It's a nightclub, not a Starbucks.
Oh, I totally expected it...but that doesn't mean I'm going to accept their advances because of the situation. I said no thank you, and if they tried to touch me or do anything more I got a little meaner about it.

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You are right jetjockey but then again if you hang out in a slaughter house dont be surprised if someone comes at you with a meat cleaver....loosely translated, if you put yourself in that kind of environment you can pretty much expect to get hit on by d**che bags. If you (or any girl) does not like being bothered why go there.....why not just find a more laid back (adult) place with free drinks. BTW jersey shore reject...Good one, that was funny.
It was Vegas and I was staying on the strip...so I definitely expected it. I didn't go to Vegas to sit in a quiet bar downtown

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What "clubs" let you in dressed like that?
Let's see...Chateau at Paris, 1 Oak at the Mirage, Koi at Planet Hollywood and Haze at the Aria. The only one that didn't let me in was Pure at Caesars Palace...but I threw on a dress and got in the next night
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Old 09-10-2013, 01:50 PM
 
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I found most bars and clubs were sausage fests where the women were ultra picky. It was noisy and expensive and never yielded any results.
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Old 09-10-2013, 02:29 PM
 
Location: Monterey, CALIFORNIA
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I found most bars and clubs were sausage fests where the women were ultra picky. It was noisy and expensive and never yielded any results.
What city was this?
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Old 09-10-2013, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Monterey, CALIFORNIA
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Let's see...Chateau at Paris, 1 Oak at the Mirage, Koi at Planet Hollywood and Haze at the Aria. The only one that didn't let me in was Pure at Caesars Palace...but I threw on a dress and got in the next night
You went to the worst clubs in vegas!! But pure is cool because they play music from my high school days, althought the crowd is
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Old 09-10-2013, 02:32 PM
 
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What city was this?
anchorage
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