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Old 09-13-2013, 11:15 PM
 
Location: North Dakota
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1) Smoker
2) Several kids with several dads
3) No job
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Old 09-13-2013, 11:23 PM
 
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Fat
Non-christian
Weak
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Old 09-13-2013, 11:39 PM
 
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Isn't a red flag, something that is a warning sign of a bad thing to come?
Something like fat or having kids to me isn't a red flag, but just a trait you don't prefer in a person.
I dunno.
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Old 09-13-2013, 11:56 PM
 
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Talks about stuff in casual conversation that reveals HUGE differences in values.

Like the guy who was ranting about his 3 babymamma's and how they had it so easy, being single moms to young kids, but his life was so ruined (by them) because he had to work instead of going to school. And how he was quitting his garnisheed job in order to work under the table.

Or the one who interrupted himself telling some story which involved getting into an awkward situation to say, 'After all, it's always easier to lie than to tell the truth, right?'
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Old 09-14-2013, 12:03 AM
 
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1. She's not interested in me.
2. She's not interested in me.
3. She's not interested in me.

Conclusion. If she's not interested in me, then what the hay does it matter how many red flags she has or doesn't. If she is somewhat interested, then I'll figure it out then.
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Old 09-14-2013, 12:15 AM
 
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Isn't a red flag, something that is a warning sign of a bad thing to come?
Something like fat or having kids to me isn't a red flag, but just a trait you don't prefer in a person.
I dunno.
Nah, a red flag is something you can choose to ignore, unwisely, and if you do it'll come back to bite you in the arse. Like, say you hook up with a fat girl cuz she's really sweet and cooks well and is great in the sack, right. But eventually, the fatness will become an issue because it's one of those things that will always be an issue for you. And when the cooking and sex can't compensate for the fatness anymore, it's splitsville and people get hurt.
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Old 09-14-2013, 12:59 AM
 
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No job
Lives with parents
Criminal record
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:35 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Fat
Non-christian
Weak
Why Non-Christian?
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:37 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Lives with parents
How exactly is this one bad?
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Old 09-14-2013, 03:58 AM
 
Location: Phoenix Arizona
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Says shes a "christian"

Sexually abused/raped/molested when she was younger

Drives a Prius
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