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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by flathead4
WTF as in I just can't believe that after two days online you been asked out twice. Twelve months here and I honestly don't know what the hell to do anymore. You know I figured I would have had something by now. At this point I'm starting to slip back although I don't want to.
Well, I don't know. It's the norm here I think, but maybe you're in a less populated area. Of course, the key is to not have a lame profile. Most people do. This is just part of a email I got last night on OKC. This person is too far away for us to get together though:
You make me want to have a more interesting profile
Mine sucks but I haven't updated it.
You're an individual, how refreshing
This. The dudes who think women don't ask them out (or drop major hints that they want to be asked out), are dudes who just aren't getting the ladies' attention. They can't assume their experience is universal for dude-kind. It's like women who don't get asked out. They'd be crazy to assume that no other women are getting asked out. Why do some dudes think so lame?
Well, I don't know. It's the norm here I think, but maybe you're in a less populated area. Of course, the key is to not have a lame profile. Most people do. This is just part of a email I got last night on OKC. This person is too far away for us to get together though:
You make me want to have a more interesting profile
Mine sucks but I haven't updated it.
You're an individual, how refreshing
Dude! Start a thread on how to write a chick-magnet profile! You're in bizness!
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by NewbiePoster
Dude! Start a thread on how to write a chick-magnet profile! You're in bizness!
Ha, hardly. Most people have success with OLD, that is why it is so popular. I don't think the naysayers on this forum (or any forum) are the norm.
The only "trick" out there is to be real and dump the formulaic crud. If you're not incredibly boring and can write halfway decently and come across as not incredibly lame, you'll do fine (assuming you're not obese and/or in a dating wasteland).
Ha, hardly. Most people have success with OLD, that is why it is so popular. I don't think the naysayers on this forum (or any forum) are the norm.
Well, but, this forum is your audience. They're the ones who need your pearls of wisdom, lol! But I take your point. Be creative, show some originality. Got that, C-D dudes? (Easier said than done...)
The way I read your remarks, especially the apathy one, the tone came off as snarky. I guess I was mistaken.
It's okay.
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