Why don't women ask men out? (dates, lover, relations, accept)

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by doobalistic

What do you mean?

Well, you are fighting me about everything - if you are happy with the way things are for - you why are you fighting? What's the problem?

[doobalistic]

Originally Posted by BIGBLUE 951SUR

Women do ask men out more than ever I got women approaching me all the time at bars grocery stores the mall etc. Times are changing women are as aggressive as ever they're advancing in the workforce at a very fast rate making money. The days of men paying for dinner or drinks are coming to an end I've had women insist on paying while on a date and that's fine with me.

This mean absolutely nothing to me now and I would be rude if they approached me now.

[doobalistic]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

Well, you are fighting me about everything - if you are happy with the way things are for - you why are you fighting? What's the problem?

So because im happy I cant disagree with you its this thinking right here that makes me think that women would want men who unattractive or don't want to disappear believe me women if I could go the rest of my life not talking or dealing with you I would sell my soul to the devil and im an atheist.

[techcrium]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

Because they thought that approaching you was them taking a chance and putting themselves out there. They wanted you to meet in the middle.

It's nobody's fault. It's a general male/female communication difference. Many women are socialized early and often to not be confrontational in a variety of situations. She'll be more likely to drop a hint that she'd love to try that new restaurant than to say "we should go on a date." It is what it is.

This is 2014 not 1900.


1. If you want a raise, you be direct. You ask your manager for a raise. You don't drop hints of a raise.


2. If you someone to stop doing something, you be direct.

lol is that why there is so much gossiping among women in the workplace?

I always hear yadda yadda she's being a btch asking me to do this all the time!
I can't stand her! blahblah
I never gossip about anyone. If I have a problem with someone, I go to their face and resolve it with them rather than play games.


3. If you want to go out with that guy, you ask him out. You don't drop hints of this and that.

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by doobalistic

So because im happy I cant disagree with you its this thinking right here that makes me think that women would want men who unattractive or don't want to disappear believe me women if I could go the rest of my life not talking or dealing with you I would sell my soul to the devil and im an atheist.

I can usually somewhat decipher your posts but this one just doesn't make sense. Maybe put down the joint and try again later? Punctuation is your friend.

[doobalistic]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

I can usually somewhat decipher your posts but this one just doesn't make sense. Maybe put down the joint and try again later? Punctuation is your friend.

I have to smoke so im not a danger to anyone but myself trust me you wouldn't like me when im sober wait women already don't like me so who am I kidding.

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by doobalistic

I have to smoke so im not a danger to anyone but myself trust me you wouldn't like me when im sober wait women already don't like me so who am I kidding.

Well, I prefer to have conversations from people who write intelligible posts. Have a nice day!

[doobalistic]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

Well, I prefer to have conversations from people who write intelligible posts. Have a nice day!

Your the only one thinking you gave an intelligent post men who are talking about the post would probably say otherwise.

[doobalistic]

Dewdrop please don't be nice to me it need women to be mean to me so that fire doesn't burn out.

[doobalistic]

The question was why don't women ask me out the answer was it makes them feel like they did all the work. Women if you feel this way how do you think men feel are we men robots.