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I don't entirely agree. Many men dont cheat because they cant or have a hard time.
If you have tons of beautiful women throwing themselves at you it will be harder for a LOT of men to be faithful.
I love when people bash Tiger Woods... uhhh you try being in his shoes and having tons of 10s blatantly wanting to sleep with you.
There are some very good looking faithful men but all in all the easy temptations often make it harder.
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I think your point goes more to lifestyle than attractiveness. I think a lot of women would say that Tiger isn't all that attractive. There are a LOT of athletes that get attention, but aren't attractive.
IMO, Being attractive may make it easier, but doesn't make it more likely.
well i didn't say all, i said many. and i'm only really passing along what i've heard other very attractive women say, both in person and online. google the topic and you will find many articles and discussion on this. a false assumption? i guess it depends who you ask.
I am not saying all either. Cheaters come in all forms. It depends on their moral fiber, not how attractive they are.
Agree. I end up going out in serious long term relationships with guy that are super attractive (and thats not what attracts me of them in the first place) and it can be real crappy for an inscure woman. I suffered it a lot with my 7 year relationship with a guy that was a 10, it was awful . My former 5 y/o boyfriend was an 8 but he thought he was a 10 so even worst, i fear of being cheated on all the time. Now i go out with a more regular guy who thinks im the most beautiful woman hes ever seen. So much better for the ego. But i still get the "he is very attractive" comment here and there and i gotta confess it **** me off, had too much of it already
oh you poor darling. and i've occaionally heard that argentinian men are exception in looks and in womanizing, and more so than the french. last time i was in buenos aries i couldn't believe how incredible attractive and charming high school "boys" were and how they worked their magic with women at such a young age. (often entertained the thought of riasing my boys there one day lol). women in colombia and venezula are raised similiarly when an incredible emphasis on beauty, sexuality, and feminity at the earliest age possible. no surprise then there are so many beauty queens from there. anyway, but i digress.
What have been your experiences with women who are known as super attractive by almost all men and women. I don't like to use the scale but let's say 9s or 10s and 10 being the most attractive.
What kind of men do they go out with?
Is this a myth? They go out with men with status? Professionals (Doctors, Lawyers, Engineers, etc), generally men with 6 figures or more income?
They go out with men who are also 9s and 10s who are known as super attractive by almost all men and women?
Do they get approached all the time? We already know that they get tons of messages everyday in the match profiles.
No, it's not a myth. There are outliers--and oh do I know how Americans like their outliers like lottery winners, unless the outliers are rich in other countries like Carlos Slim, then the world is unfair accept for the United States.
But think about it. Most people (with the exception of a few) want the best of what they can get. People usually don't ask for abject poverty, deformity, cancer, or to contact HIV. Very few people say, "Oh! I dream of living in a roach infested house one day," or "Oh! how I just want to date the guy every person regards as a 'loser,'" or "Oh! how I wish I could just marry the fugliest woman on earth."
Most people pursue the ideal of "good" or "best" placed up in their society.
You won't find me looking for a woman with a neck like a giraffe, but hey, I was reared up in Milwaukee and not some Asian jungle.
In the Western World a very attractive looking woman is aware she looks "hot." She's also keenly aware she can discriminate against men the top notch alphas males.
In general though... money and status (of the man) are more important to a woman than his looks. She knows she can always have extramarital affairs with a guy she finds "hot" looking if she's married to the guy with the money and status.
One of my co-workers is a drop dead gorgeous blonde in her late 20s with a Pamela Anderson type of body, smart, very good personality and overall nice person. She didn't have a bf for a while (at least not that she talked about). They way she goes on and on about this hot movie star or that hot movie star, I thought she would be with a guy that could be the model for some underwear ad. Whenever a group of us would go to lunch, she was always being ogled by guys. To me, she could have just about any guy she wanted.
She has had a bf now for almost a year and when I finally saw a photo of them on vacation, I was stunned. He was slightly overweight and very average. I think it said something about my mindset and her maturity.
What do you know about his wealth, work, education etc?
many attractive women go for guys who make them feel good, not just for looks. and that can be from financial security, catering to their needs, or just a personality that they connect with. in fact, many dont like guys being too attractive because, well, some of those kind of guys can also be loyalty risk.
Agree. I end up going out in serious long term relationships with guy that are super attractive (and thats not what attracts me of them in the first place) and it can be real crappy for an inscure woman. I suffered it a lot with my 7 year relationship with a guy that was a 10, it was awful . My former 5 y/o boyfriend was an 8 but he thought he was a 10 so even worst, i fear of being cheated on all the time. Now i go out with a more regular guy who thinks im the most beautiful woman hes ever seen. So much better for the ego. But i still get the "he is very attractive" comment here and there and i gotta confess it **** me off, had too much of it already
Fear and being possessive isn't a healthy relationship. You can assume a lot of things but they might never happen.
Those guys buy them drinks because they kiss a**. I never do that. I don't treat a girl better just because she is better looking.
I am totally with you, I don't treat people based on looks, only if their personality is good and they are friendly. I never treated attractive women better, not now at 26 or when I was 11.
For the record, most insanely attractive women aren't worth the hassle anyway. Pretty to look at but an ungodly pain in the ass to deal with. That's what happens when a person has their a** kissed by the entire world their whole life...they become insufferable.
They should be honest to why guys get rejected. Not like I care why I got rejected but I like honesty. If a girl thinks I am ugly than say it to my face lol.
Not every girl will think that you are ugly. If you "act ugly" girls can sense that.
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. My former 5 y/o boyfriend was an 8 but he thought he was a 10 so even worst, i fear of being cheated on all the time. Now i go out with a more regular guy who thinks im the most beautiful woman hes ever seen
. So much better for the ego
. But i still get the "he is very attractive" comment here and there and i gotta confess it **** me off, had too much of it already
