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Originally Posted by JaybirdX
It just makes so much more sense that way to me in my opinion. Honestly you ladies are not a hivemind. Sure everyone wants these certain things within a relationship love, commitment, understanding and others but those come in many different packages.
I am not going to be all things too every women, whether traditional or new age or what ever you want to call it. If I don't fit some definition of what others find in a man on the mostly "exaggerated of opinion" level then so be.
IME, when I stopped caring about what women want my happiness skyrocketed through the moon in fact.
I can only speak for myself y'all can agree or disagree as you please.
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The Ultimate Rule Of Happiness: Never Worry About What Others Think Of You.
That being said, it's not women that you need to worry about. It's a woman. As in the one woman. The individual with dreams, tastes, passions and insecurities. The person with whom you have chemistry. You are not launching an ad campaign to millions, you are making a sales call with one prospect so to speak, hoping she'll like the cut of your jib.
When someone refers to women in the collective, they sound like those guys who buy Pickup Artists books in hopes of scoring at the nightclub on Saturday night.
In that sense, it's really pretty easy: You actually talk to the woman in question, and listen more than you talk. Women in general and as individuals are not all that mysterious. They will tell you exactly what you want to know if you let them.
Second? Always be yourself at all times (Unless of course, you've got the social skills of a turnip, in which case you need to work on that). Because women can generally detect a fraud in no time flat, but they like authenticity in a man. However, that does not excuse you from grooming or wearing decent clothes. If you don't respect yourself to take basic care of yourself and not look as if you shop at thrift stores all the time, then how can you get anyone else to respect you?
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