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You can make small changes to your personality the same way you can make small changes to your appearance.
Guys who are born very introverted and soft spoken aren't going to suddenly start having a personality like Arnold Schwarzenegger or Robert Downey JR the same way ugly chicks aren't going to turn into playboy models
It's not any less shallow to be demanding on personality than appearance
I disagree completely.
There isn't much I can do to change my height, my big nose, my scars, the fact that I'm knock kneed or any of the other physical deformities I've been rejected for.
I've seen people change their personalities more times than I can count. If you put effort into it you can be both extroverted and introverted...I certainly did it. It may not be easy, but it can be done.
You can make small changes to your personality the same way you can make small changes to your appearance.
Guys who are born very introverted and soft spoken aren't going to suddenly start having a personality like Arnold Schwarzenegger or Robert Downey JR the same way ugly chicks aren't going to turn into playboy models
It's not any less shallow to be demanding on personality than appearance
Change is for the weak. Accept you as you are or forget it.
Men tend to judge women on 2 things - appearance and personality
Women judge men on 85,000 things - looks, appearance, job, education, etc... etc... etc... They have way more requirements in a man than vice versa
So how are the men more shallow here?
Why is it more noble to reject somebody because they don't have the income or education you want?
As was said, I'd rather be judged on a variety of characteristics than just two. That way, if you meet say 7 out of 10, you get consideration.
IRL I have a few female friends who have ridiculous demands. But a lot of it is focused on just looks and income. So for them it's also just two things.
But most women I know do have several preferences, but they don't demand that every guy they date fulfill all of them. Just several of them, which I think is normal and healthy.
Ace take my advice stop the gender war threads. You probably can't see it but everything balances out in the end between the sexes. Not all women are as judgemental as you seem to think.
Is it my understanding that the OP believes that women are never called shallow? I'm not even sure how to respond to that.......
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Read my previous threads. I blame my failings on a variety of different things - horrible luck, working in a male dominated environment as well as an invisible force field over me that makes me absolutely repulsive to women
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and last I checked it's still a Man's World so they don't actually need "defending".
Women - "having standards is fantastic, don't ever settle"
Men - "you won't date a girl who is 25 Lbs overweight when you are in great shape yourself, you are shallow!"
Women - "having standards is fantastic, don't ever settle"
Men - "you won't date a girl who is 25 Lbs overweight when you are in great shape yourself, you are shallow!"
I'm complaining about that nonsense ^^^
I won't date a guy that is 25 pounds overweight and I am in great shape.
Whatever. Call me shallow.
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