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Old 09-19-2013, 09:18 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Yeah I've never in my life seen porn where the woman looks angry, ever
I've seen a few... and it's not immediately identifiable either. Maybe being a woman myself I notice it a bit more even if it's subtle.
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Old 09-19-2013, 09:20 AM
 
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I've seen a few... and it's not immediately identifiable either. Maybe being a woman myself I notice it a bit more even if it's subtle.
To be fair you have a point. I never though of it like that.

When I think angry, I think obvious angry like expressions
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Old 09-19-2013, 09:26 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Really? I rarely see them look "angry"

You probably just ASSUME they don't like it because it's different stuff than what YOU like.. I can assure you, women are VERY different. Ive slept with some women that LOVE certain things, while others are like "no way is that happening"

I'd go into detail but discussing that is against the rules. Ask me how I know..

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I know what female engorgement and orgasm look like. I think most porn watchers think it's all moaning and screaming.
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Old 09-19-2013, 09:30 AM
 
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I know what female engorgement and orgasm look like. I think most porn watchers think it's all moaning and screaming.
I wonder if that's part of the reason a lot of women don't enjoy porn... I mean, I've watched my share and most of the time the woman doesn't look aroused and doesn't look like she's actually enjoying herself AT ALL. I have no doubts the guys watching wouldn't care or even notice because she's moaning and carrying on...but it just seems mechanical to me.
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Old 09-19-2013, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Sacramento, Ca.
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Also, nobody needs sex. Your gf is merely being herself.
Speak for yourself. But this also sounds to me like a compatibility issue that would have been better hashed out during the dating period, before commitment. And I dont see it as her telling him what he can and cannot do as much as it being her opinion or discomfort with his enjoying watching other people, including women, engaging in sex, even if it might now be a bit late in the game.
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Old 09-19-2013, 10:04 AM
 
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and i dont blame them for doing so.....if you really think about it, when you watch porn in front of the computer or wherever you are building up visuals that will make you ejaculate. Visuals. Instead of the real physical thing. Your visuals in your mind control when you ejaculate, and so when you actually physically make love to a woman it is much more difficult because you are used to the visuals and your mind telling you when to climax.
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Old 09-19-2013, 10:27 AM
 
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I wonder if that's part of the reason a lot of women don't enjoy porn... I mean, I've watched my share and most of the time the woman doesn't look aroused and doesn't look like she's actually enjoying herself AT ALL. I have no doubts the guys watching wouldn't care or even notice because she's moaning and carrying on...but it just seems mechanical to me.
This happens in real life all the time. How many studies are there that say the majority of women haven't achieved an orgasm during sex? These same studies also say women would rather go shopping than have sex. For the most part, women don't get aroused during sex. This is not because of porn. This is how women are in general regarding sex. A video of a woman having sex with her real life lover could look just as mechanical as sex with a stranger.
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Old 09-19-2013, 10:32 AM
 
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This happens in real life all the time. How many studies are there that say the majority of women haven't achieved an orgasm during sex? These same studies also say women would rather go shopping than have sex. For the most part, women don't get aroused during sex. This is not because of porn. This is how women are in general regarding sex. A video of a woman having sex with her real life lover could look just as mechanical as sex with a stranger.
Not achieving orgasm doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy sex...I myself have never achieved orgasm during sex and I still LOVE having it.

And I can't even begin to tell you how BS it is that women don't get aroused during sex...if this is your experience then you might be the problem.
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Old 09-19-2013, 10:45 AM
 
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I know what female engorgement and orgasm look like. I think most porn watchers think it's all moaning and screaming.
So how many women, in person, other than yourself, have you witnessed having sex?

How many facial expressions of women having sex (non porn) have you witnessed first hand?

To make such a blanket statement saying ALL female porn stars look angry is absurd.

Let me guess. All the porn star guys love it then, right?

Because anyone who's been on this forum long enough knows that women are always the poor victims being forced into everything and men are the big bad abusers...
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Old 09-19-2013, 10:46 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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This happens in real life all the time. How many studies are there that say the majority of women haven't achieved an orgasm during sex? These same studies also say women would rather go shopping than have sex. For the most part, women don't get aroused during sex. This is not because of porn. This is how women are in general regarding sex. A video of a woman having sex with her real life lover could look just as mechanical as sex with a stranger.
What studies? I most definitely would not rather go shopping - and I usually have an orgasm during sex. I love sex - and most of my girlfriends do, too. Now, if a woman doesn't get aroused during sex, I can see why she wouldn't enjoy it. But I can't imagine not getting aroused during sex. If so - there are some issues.
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