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Old 09-28-2013, 11:46 PM
 
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Me and this guy met on a dating site and yesterday we had the "exclusive" talk after 6 dates. We had sex after...however, I found him to be still online status on the dating site today. Is this normal? Should I just run or bring it up to him?
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Old 09-29-2013, 12:09 AM
 
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Do you mean he was actually online on the site? Or just that he hadn't deleted his profile?
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Old 09-29-2013, 12:30 AM
 
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I would talk to him about it.
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Old 09-29-2013, 12:49 AM
 
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if it were me, id tell him, some old flame called and asked you out, after you said no, he asked you to meet for a lunch "just as friends"
and you turned him down- im saying this because thats what i would expect from you, (ive been burnt in the past)
also means, shutting down all online status.....

be upfront with him
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Old 09-29-2013, 01:10 AM
 
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Do you mean he was actually online on the site? Or just that he hadn't deleted his profile?
He was actually online..
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Old 09-29-2013, 01:35 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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Me and this guy met on a dating site and yesterday we had the "exclusive" talk after 6 dates. We had sex after...however, I found him to be still online status on the dating site today. Is this normal? Should I just run or bring it up to him?
Question is, what were you doing online?
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Old 09-29-2013, 01:38 AM
 
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Question is, what were you doing online?
Now you know she was online deleting her profile and NOT checking up on him, shoot everyone knows the "exclusive" talk AND sex after six dates is just as good as being married.
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Old 09-29-2013, 01:50 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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Now you know she was online deleting her profile and NOT checking up on him, shoot everyone knows the "exclusive" talk AND sex after six dates is just as good as being married.
6 dates is a bit to early to call out anything exclusive.
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Old 09-29-2013, 03:23 AM
 
Location: Phoenix Arizona
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Unless it's been established by the both of you that you are both in a committed relationship then it's fair game. He might think you guys are just casually dating and seeing other people although you might think that's not the case.
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Old 09-29-2013, 03:29 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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So you traded sex for a promise of "exclusivity", but you've been swindled?

Only in America!

There's always Judge Judy.
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