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Old 09-30-2013, 07:40 PM
 
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When a guy gives a girl advice about her problems with another guy, does it mean she is in his sister zone or friendzone? Does this mean he is NOT attracted to her because he listens to her guy problems and gives her advice?
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Old 09-30-2013, 07:53 PM
 
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No, sometimes you even steal them away because she realizes what a turd he is compared to you.
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Old 09-30-2013, 08:48 PM
 
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Depends a lot on the person. Personally I will give some small advice to women I'm attracted to if I feel that they are going though something and I can actually help. I am never a shoulder to cry on and I don't give endless "help" or enable relationships with guys that aren't me. That's something I may do for really close female friends but almost never with a woman I actually have feelings for.

So in short if a dude is listening to all of a girl's problems there is either some "friend zone" action going on or he's being a wussy and won't stand up for his feelings.
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Old 09-30-2013, 11:31 PM
 
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It doesn't tell you either way.

He could just be a good friend.

Or he could be faking friendship in the hope of getting in her pants.

Or he could be hanging around in the hope she will fall in love with him and marry him.

Or he could be gay

Or he could be hoping he will advise him about girls!
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Old 09-30-2013, 11:39 PM
 
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Tell you what OP....with my Sister I hide in bushes waiting for exes and whatnot more than I care to say.

I wasn't a shoulder to cry on so to speak.

Just a bodyguard and able to point out what an azzhole he is/was.
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Old 09-30-2013, 11:42 PM
 
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It doesn't mean he's not attracted to her..But it could be a sign he's not interested in a relationship.
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Old 09-30-2013, 11:43 PM
 
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When a guy gives a girl advice about her problems with another guy, does it mean she is in his sister zone or friendzone? Does this mean he is NOT attracted to her because he listens to her guy problems and gives her advice?
On the contrary. He is attracted to you. By giving you advice to repair, ironically, your current relationship, he is subconsciously acknowledging that HE is in YOUR friendzone and he's hoping that he can get out of it by showing you how much better he is than the other guy.

[from personal experience, this is a waste of a guy's time]
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Old 09-30-2013, 11:58 PM
 
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You shouldn't do it for money or sexual gain or recognition.

You should do it for free because you care.

I hid in a pile of raked leaves once too waiting to see if a ex would come home drunk and try to smash his way in.

He never showed up.....damn. lol

Wanted to rough him up for attempted breaking and entering.

Maybe assault too.
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