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Yes available good men. I am tired of little boys. I should have added that I am thinking of dating older men just for the maturity factor.
It is best to learn right now that chronological age has nothing to do with level of maturity in men or women.
Don't get your hopes up based on a man made number.
the good ones want nothing to do with a girl that asks "where are all the good men".
I don't know whether to barf, yawn, or pull my hair out when I read women complain about not being able to find a good guy. Look in the mirror and then look within for your answer.
Working 40 hours a week and trying to get my College prerequisites done . Then apply for the program once i get in quite my job so I can 100% focused on the program. Working on getting a better life and get out of poverty . I want to be dad some day so i got to step it up so I can feed my family i don't have yet.
Good guys are out there but hard to find . I am 30 years old an most girl a talk to and stuff are too young for me. Then if i met a woman my age she is taken and married with kids.
It's been my experience that a lot of the good men tend to be a bit quiet (not always, but a lot of times). Sometimes you have to seek them out and break the ice before they will make a move.
Also, you didn't mention where you've been looking--but if it's bars, clubs, and typical "pick-up" places, odds are against you. You are better off joining clubs (maybe try meet up.com and find a few in your area that interest you--that will have a good mix of men in them. So, for example, a hiking club if you are into that sort of thing... or a club that shoots pool on Friday's, etc). Volunteering is also a great way to meet men--just be sure to join a cause you really care about... so if you care for the poor, maybe volunteer for Habitat for Humanity, etc. Probably one of the best ways is to let family and friends know you are looking. The nice thing are the men they usually recommend are already vetted (they know the guy and often know he's a "good man" and not a jerk).
Ok so I've been dating for a while now and it seems that every guy is a player or unreliable in some way or they just want sex and nothing else. How do you go about finding good men aged 20-30? I don't care about looks or how much money he makes. I just want someone honest, kind, smart and romantic. I don't want to do the online dating thing. I tried it once and I got 1,000,000 messages, most of them perverted.
Um no it's that all the guys I meet my age or even older have not grown up. I don't do anything to attract them.
Usually when a person blames their dating woes on substantial portion of the opposite sex, they are usually the ones that need to do some adjusting. There are good men all around as another poster said. Either you are ignoring them due to some silly little flaw they may have or there's something you're doing that is off-putting to the men that you want. You are going to have to take control of your dating life, and coming to CD wondering where the good men are isn't it.
Ok so I've been dating for a while now and it seems that every guy is a player or unreliable in some way or they just want sex and nothing else. How do you go about finding good men aged 20-30? I don't care about looks or how much money he makes. I just want someone honest, kind, smart and romantic. I don't want to do the online dating thing. I tried it once and I got 1,000,000 messages, most of them perverted.
Where are the good men???
Sometimes right beside you, or next to you, maybe sitting in front of you. But you don't notice because your looking the wrong way, even when we are jumping up and down to get your attention.
Good men are confident but not flashy. We are often quiet, unless we online. Stop looking for what your looking for now, relax and expand your awareness and i bet you will see that good man jumping up and down behind you or beside you trying to get noticed etc.
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, even when we are jumping up and down to get your attention.
Stop looking for what your looking for now, relax and expand your awareness and i bet you will see that good man jumping up and down behind you or beside you trying to get noticed etc.
