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Old 10-04-2013, 08:47 AM
 
Location: NY
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As a woman, I'm used to being the "little"spoon. However, the guy I'm dating now is usually the small spoon and I'm the big one.

I guess it is because of the side I prefer to sleep on and I don't really mind all that much about being the big spoon, but it would be nice if we were a little more even in taking turns.

But, my question is for the men--are you comfortable being the small spoon, or would it feel strange to be the small one 99% of the time? (ha--asking guys if they mind being the small one!)
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Old 10-04-2013, 08:52 AM
 
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I like being the big spoon but I have never been the small spoon so I can't really tell for sure.
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:06 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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My spoon is too big - YouTube
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:09 AM
 
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actually I prefer to be the "little spoon" because then her hair is not in my face! but honestly we mostly sleep with our backs to each other, rarely do we spoon for long as it leads to forking and that leads to turning over and passing out.
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:19 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I'm usually the big spoon. If I'm the little spoon my hair gets all over his face, which he doesn't like. (Ha, just saw what gvillesux said. Same here. We also sleep back-to-back.)
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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I'm usually the big spoon. If I'm the little spoon my hair gets all over his face, which he doesn't like. (Ha, just saw what gvillesux said. Same here. We also sleep back-to-back.)
Same here Julia lol

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actually I prefer to be the "little spoon" because then her hair is not in my face! but honestly we mostly sleep with our backs to each other, rarely do we spoon for long as it leads to forking and that leads to turning over and passing out.
^^Honey, is that you!


We sometimes alternate but it doesn't last long because either he's snoring in my ear or I can't fall asleep unless I'm on my left side.
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:26 AM
 
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I've always been big spoon with all the men I've dated.

Not much of a cuddler though.
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:26 AM
 
Location: NY
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Good point about the hair getting in the way--I hadn't thought of that.

My face cheek rests on his back--no too much hair there--thank goodness!
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:27 AM
 
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I don't spoon. I fork
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Old 10-04-2013, 09:30 AM
 
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We apparently ran out of things to ask questions about today. Mark it on the calendar.








That was a joke, btw, don't take it personally, OP.
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