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Old 10-04-2013, 03:58 PM
 
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It seems to me that I fit a demographic that's not at all popular in this town. I did join a meet up group for speakers of a certain foreign language, but as usual I am the only young person in this group.
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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It seems to me that I fit a demographic that's not at all popular in this town. I did join a meet up group for speakers of a certain foreign language, but as usual I am the only young person in this group.
I belong to a guitar player club, lots fun. Some singles there found dates with similar interests. They are all in their 20s still.
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:08 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It seems to me that I fit a demographic that's not at all popular in this town. I did join a meet up group for speakers of a certain foreign language, but as usual I am the only young person in this group.
I wonder to what extent young peoples' expectations that meetups are for older folks cause them to stay away, and create a self-fulfilling prophecy? I knew a couple of language professors at my university who ran chat-groups in foreign languages, and a wide variety of ages attended regularly. Students loved it, and appreciated being able to learn from older immigrants from the countries in question.

But that was then. This is now. Seems that times have changed, or maybe it depends on the personality of the person organizing the group.
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:12 PM
 
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Hobbies....."hobbies"?

What "hobbies"?

Nah, that would be an insult.

It's YOUR LIFE!!!
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:15 PM
 
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I wonder to what extent young peoples' expectations that meetups are for older folks cause them to stay away, and create a self-fulfilling prophecy? I knew a couple of language professors at my university who ran chat-groups in foreign languages, and a wide variety of ages attended regularly. Students loved it, and appreciated being able to learn from older immigrants from the countries in question.

But that was then. This is now. Seems that times have changed, or maybe it depends on the personality of the person organizing the group.
Actually, I was part of a small foreign language club in college, but all the young girls had boyfriends. We had a fun time though.

With that said, I am a loyal member of all 3 of my meet up groups.
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:17 PM
 
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Hobbies....."hobbies"?

What "hobbies"?

Nah, that would be an insult.

It's YOUR LIFE!!!
Is there some sort of a language issue I don't know about? English is not my first language...
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:18 PM
 
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I wonder to what extent young peoples' expectations that meetups are for older folks cause them to stay away, and create a self-fulfilling prophecy? I knew a couple of language professors at my university who ran chat-groups in foreign languages, and a wide variety of ages attended regularly. Students loved it, and appreciated being able to learn from older immigrants from the countries in question.

But that was then. This is now. Seems that times have changed, or maybe it depends on the personality of the person organizing the group.
It varies on where you're living. I live in an area that has something like 40% or more older/elderly people living here, so if there were any social events that happened here(and there aren't), there would be a huge amount of old people in attendance and very few, if any, younger people.
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Hobbies....."hobbies"?

What "hobbies"?

Nah, that would be an insult.

It's YOUR LIFE!!!
LOL You always have a lot of wisdom to share.
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I do hobbies that I enjoy, not to meet men. So far, my hobbies mostly involve elderly married men and the occasional middle aged woman.

I did recently join a knitting group though, so my social circle will be opening up to elderly women as well
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:20 PM
 
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I belong to a guitar player club, lots fun. Some singles there found dates with similar interests. They are all in their 20s still.
Reminds me, I do play the piano a bit. I'm not as good as I want to be though.
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