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I can understand why this is hard for you when you see women throw themselves on your husband all the time, however he is with you for a reason. He loves you and wants to be with you, or he wouldn't be. Marriage requires a lot of trust and you will need to trust that he will do fine on his 1 mo. trip to Europe. Call him often and stay in touch.
So you have seen with your own eyes your husband trying to get away from all these women and blocking their advances, removing their hands from him etc. yet you still think he "might" cheat on you?
Seek professional therapy for your insecurity and jealously and do not blame your husband for your self imagined perception of wrong doing by your husband.
I am not blaming him, he did nothing wrong, i am blaming those whores. I am worried what if he gives in, it is in human nature, he will be one month without me out there.
I am not blaming him, he did nothing wrong, i am blaming those whores. I am worried what if he gives in, it is in human nature, he will be one month without me out there.
Good suggestion.
Did you marry him, at least in part, because it seemed "safer" choice?
He can't see how cute they are, and their attractiveness is useless to him. He knows your love and kindness. Face it, for all couples, there's no absolute guarantee that they will not cheat. So you just have to trust them if they give you no reason to doubt their loyalty, and keep loving them. There's an old saying. "If you keep the dog fed at home, he's not going to go wandering looking."
There is something in him that pulls women towards him, not just beauty.
You have jealousy. That is very destructive in a relationship.
You need to replace it with trust.
Joke this whole thing off.
As he is leaving, kiss him and tell him how much you will miss him and then hand him a miniature bat and say, "Here's a little something to keep those pesky women away."
Then laugh. He will remember you when he feels the bat in his luggage.
I am not blaming him, he did nothing wrong, i am blaming those whores. I am worried what if he gives in, it is in human nature, he will be one month without me out there.
Do you really believe these women are whores?
You need to dial it back and get a grip on your own behavior. The primary reason your husband would leave is because you sound like a paranoid shrew.
You have jealousy. That is very destructive in a relationship.
You need to replace it with trust.
Joke this whole thing off.
As he is leaving, kiss him and tell him how much you will miss him and then hand him a miniature bat and say, "Here's a little something to keep those pesky women away."
Then laugh. He will remember you when he feels the bat in his luggage.
I never, and at least i think that i have never expressed my jealousy to him, i avoid that. But looks like insecurity just started to grow in me.
Nice idea about the bat by the way.
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