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Old 10-06-2013, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Windham County, VT
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I am usually *not* the one doing the breaking up, most of the time it has been the other person's decision & it took me by surprise.
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Old 10-06-2013, 04:31 PM
 
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Old 10-06-2013, 04:33 PM
 
Location: The A
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Had one girlfriend in my life. She broke up with me like 400 times but we always got back together. Then I moved and broke up with her. It was done at that point.
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Old 10-06-2013, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Only dumped a few. The rest it was them.
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Old 10-06-2013, 06:14 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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Only dumped a few. The rest it was them.
jeez, you say it as if you need a toothpick to clean out the debris...
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Old 10-06-2013, 06:18 PM
 
Location: In bucolic TN
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I was dumped in 3 relationships. For the 4th, after two years, she sought to just be friends. I disconnected fully. She chased me. After removing all my clothes from her home and goods in storage I told her to take any residuals, put them on fire, and place them in the urn of past lovers, because I was that 'done' with her. She didn't call me back after that.

She was very immature and couldn't allow I didn't want her anymore, though initially, she merely sought to 'slow down' our relationship into more of an affiliative, platonic companionship. I told her essentially I was not going to stand by if I've been driving a Maserati and be relegated to using a Ford Pinto. She got the car analogy and stopped bothering me. Brutal, direct, but unquestionably determined not to be yo-yo'ed, which is how I characterized I had been in all prior relationships, intimate and platonic. I guess she had to see it herself and know it was really over.
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Old 10-06-2013, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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jeez, you say it as if you need a toothpick to clean out the debris...
No it's just that I went on dates often. The dating world I feel is fun and harsh all rolled into one.
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