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Old 10-07-2013, 11:45 AM
 
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There was a girl I fell in love with in my class. I forgot her name or at least If I remember correctly she's not appearing on Facebook. Would it be ok for me to contact the teacher for the email address of the girl so I can contact her? I'm sure she had attraction to me as well, I was too shy to talk to her though, damn. When I think of her I wanna cry because I want to see her.

It's been like three years now though.
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Old 10-07-2013, 11:48 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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You're in love with her, but you've never spoken to her? And it's been three years? No. Just no. Whatever you're thinking of doing, don't.
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Old 10-07-2013, 11:50 AM
 
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You're in love with her, but you've never spoken to her? And it's been three years? No. Just no. Whatever you're thinking of doing, don't.
It's always fascinating to me how women always say this stuff and then they force men to go watch crap movies about people who do it.
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Old 10-07-2013, 11:51 AM
 
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There was a girl I fell in love with in my class. I forgot her name or at least If I remember correctly she's not appearing on Facebook. Would it be ok for me to contact the teacher for the email address of the girl so I can contact her? I'm sure she had attraction to me as well, I was too shy to talk to her though, damn. When I think of her I wanna cry because I want to see her.

It's been like three years now though.
If you really feel that strongly about her, then yeah. But I wouldn't be surprised if the teacher doesn't have the email address and/or refuses to give it to you. Still, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck.
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Old 10-07-2013, 11:51 AM
 
Location: NYC
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You sound very young but you are at least old enough to be abletopost. Young people should be able to make mistakes and learn from them. Do what you think is best and learn from the experience.
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Old 10-07-2013, 11:53 AM
 
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I graduated from college. It was a college class.
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Old 10-07-2013, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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It's always fascinating to me how women always say this stuff and then they force men to go watch crap movies about people who do it.
Say what now? OP sounds like a high school kid who had a crush on a girl who didn't even know he existed. Three years later he's going to find her and what? It's one thing to try to reconnect with The One That Got Away. Tracking down The One Who Doesn't Know Who You Are is a different story.
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Old 10-07-2013, 11:56 AM
 
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Say what now? OP sounds like a high school kid who had a crush on a girl who didn't even know he existed. Three years later he's going to find her and what? It's one thing to try to reconnect with The One That Got Away. Tracking down The One Who Doesn't Know Who You Are is a different story.
No, there are movies where some guy will run into a woman, not know her name, desperately struggle to find her, and meanwhile women are busting out Kleenexes and glaring at their boyfriends and husbands. And yet you go to any forum and women are like "MOVE ON AND ****."
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Old 10-07-2013, 12:02 PM
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I wouldn't bother contacting the professor since it's been 3 years. Chances are the professor doesn't have it, and if she does, she wouldn't know which email address to give you because you don't know her name. Just chalk it up to a lost opportunity. If you're set on finding her, you can maybe find a year book on classmates.com. You'd still have to sift through all the pictures and there's no guarantee she even in the year book.
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Old 10-07-2013, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Say what now? OP sounds like a high school kid who had a crush on a girl who didn't even know he existed.
Sounds familiar to a high school poster we had some 3-6 months back.

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No, there are movies where some guy will run into a woman, not know her name, desperately struggle to find her, and meanwhile women are busting out Kleenexes and glaring at their boyfriends and husbands. And yet you go to any forum and women are like "MOVE ON AND ****."
I've never heard of that movie, but most rational people can separate movies from real life. Most stories like this don't have a storybook ending and it's very unlikely the teacher is looking to give away students' contact info.
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