To Those Men Determined Never Date a Single Mother... (reason, attract, people)

[rpps]

dating a single mom is like playing someone elses saved game

i'm not paying for something someone else got for free

it's like paying new car price for a used car

it's like getting a damaged item with no discount

well if you have a kid with someone. and it ends. obviously you failed there. you picked incorrectly. your fault, or theirs...
bottom line is that it was the wrong choice

I'll just leave these here.
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[AT-AT28]

I have no desire to have or let alone raise children for a variety of personal reasons. If your a single mom, your completely off my dating radar, sorry.

[Tele-Cat]

Originally Posted by jerseygal4u

Is the single parent who adopts looked at the same way as the single mom who birthed kids?

I'm just interested if they are treated the same

They are by me. If you are a parent, by whatever means, you're off the list forever.

[Atlguy39]

Originally Posted by Tele-Cat

I've read finding CF women in OKC is impossible, as well, but I have no first-hand experience.

It is, if you catch them at 22 years old, but thats about 10 years too young for me.

[Mr. Ryu]

Originally Posted by Tele-Cat

They are by me. If you are a parent, by whatever means, you're off the list forever.

Same here

[Atlguy39]

Quote:

"They are by me. If you are a parent, by whatever means, you're off the list forever."


I was the same way in my 20's. Can't afford to think this way anymore, unfortunately.

[Tele-Cat]

Originally Posted by Atlguy39

Quote:

"They are by me. If you are a parent, by whatever means, you're off the list forever."


I was the same way in my 20's. Can't afford to think this way anymore, unfortunately.

Sure you can.

[Faith2187]

If a woman with kids is not your thing fine. But I don't understand why some men, that obviously don't want to date a single mom, date them anyway because they have limited options. I would rather a man not date me because he sees me as damaged goods, than to date me because he has no options, and of course secretly looks down on me because I'm a single mom. If you as a child free man really has no interest in single moms but that is the majority of the dating pool in your area, then maybe you need to consider moving. I mean clearly you will never truly be happy dating a single mom so why settle?!

[lilyflower3191981]

Originally Posted by upndown

The reality is that the majority of men aren't interested in single moms for marriage unless one or more of the following apply:

a) The mom is ridiculously hot.
b) They are single fathers.
c) They're getting older and are themselves being forced to lower their standards.
d) They're not getting any attention from single women.

So basically, you think men who married single mothers are undesirable men. Is it what you are trying to say?

[Atlguy39]

Originally Posted by Tele-Cat

Sure you can.

How do you figure? I'm 45.