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Old 10-09-2013, 09:29 PM
 
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I think a guy has to have a good personality or it will all fall apart. If the guy has the personality of a wet blanket I cant see a girl sticking around too long no matter how good looking this guy might be.

I know the first thing i look for in a girl is intelligence because if she does not have that she is mine.

I think it comes down to look for men but if she and not very bright or no personality most men will just sleep with her until a better girl come along.

Looks are important but they only get you in the door and into bed .

 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:29 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Things I've found the majority of women deem essential in their men:

-tall
-average sized dick
-masculine looking
-reasonably attractive face
-not obese/anorexic

things most men deem essential in women:

-shorter than them (though really short men probably compromise)
-not obese
-reasonably attractive face


Thoughts? I think the stigma of women caring less about looks is a myth, and they're actually in a position to be more choosy. Guys appreciate things like big boobs but rarely have I seen them considered a prerequisite

And yes, I realize these are generalizations, but then so is the stigma that men care more about looks than women.
You would be wrong, big boobs are definitely a prerequisite.
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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And open minded people think men care more?

Some may. But I doubt severy single male thinks like this.
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:31 PM
 
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I think a guy has to have a good personality or it will all fall apart. If the guy has the personality of a wet blanket I cant see a girl sticking around too long no matter how good looking this guy might be.

I know the first thing i look for in a girl is intelligence because if she does not have that she is mine.

I think it comes down to look for men but if she and not very bright or no personality most men will just sleep with her until a better girl come along.

Looks are important but they only get you in the door and into bed .
Agreed but that cuts both ways. No guy wants to marry a blonde bimbo (I hope!)
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:31 PM
 
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You would be wrong, big boobs are definitely a prerequisite.

Big boobs are over rated as a woman gets older they just end up looking like those long balloons two days after the birthday party.
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:32 PM
 
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Some may. But I doubt severy single male thinks like this.
I find women are more prone to disparaging comments putting down a man's appearance, simply for the sake of doing it. Have heard short guys get knocked many times before by groups of women, and I hear they discuss small dicks too
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:33 PM
 
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Some may. But I doubt severy single male thinks like this.

Some guys will take what they can get .
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:35 PM
 
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Big boobs are over rated as a woman gets older they just end up looking like those long balloons two days after the birthday party.
If you get a woman with fake big boobs, that won't happen. Unfortunately, I think I am going to be making balloon animals in my old age Could be entertaining to do in the nursing home though.
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:37 PM
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I find women are more prone to disparaging comments putting down a man's appearance, simply for the sake of doing it. Have heard short guys get knocked many times before by groups of women, and I hear they discuss small dicks too
Or substitute money, or lack of it that is, as well as not being a formal example...doesn't fit in with a group. He can be a certified and confirmed alpha male, yet he's "different".

Women complain far more than any man I know does.

They'll find something wrong with anyone and point it out.

Women often get smartass about it more than men too.
 
Old 10-09-2013, 09:38 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I find women are more prone to disparaging comments putting down a man's appearance, simply for the sake of doing it. Have heard short guys get knocked many times before by groups of women, and I hear they discuss small dicks too
Yes women do when they are goofing around. But in reality every person is different in what they like. With age some change their minds onto more important things.
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