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Old 10-11-2013, 05:21 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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I'm always a little wary when a low count poster starts a thread, but I'm wondering if the OP is just scoping the board to find out which women are attractive here???
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Old 10-11-2013, 06:14 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm always a little wary when a low count poster starts a thread, but I'm wondering if the OP is just scoping the board to find out which women are attractive here???
EVERYONE is a low-count poster when they start.

As for make-up, ONLY those who wear a stage-appropriate amount of make-up look THAT MUCH different without it.
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Old 10-11-2013, 06:27 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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I'm really curious how hot you women are that claim to be "super attractive," yet have no profile picture that is viewable.

I honestly don't know a single woman who is honest with herself about how attractive she really is.
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Old 10-11-2013, 06:43 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Guess you'll have to stay curious. Privacy is why I don't post my pic.

I know exactly where I stand. I'm not "hot" anymore, but I once was. Now I guess I'm just an attractive older woman.

Most people have a skewed vision of themselves, one way or another.
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Old 10-11-2013, 06:45 AM
 
Location: Terra
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I'm really curious how hot you women are that claim to be "super attractive," yet have no profile picture that is viewable.

I honestly don't know a single woman who is honest with herself about how attractive she really is.
C-D is one of the larger sites on the internet. I don't have a pic up and don't post too much personal info (even though I'm a guy), just because I like the anonymity. I suspect for most women, it would be even more important.
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Old 10-11-2013, 06:50 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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Guess you'll have to stay curious. Privacy is why I don't post my pic.

I know exactly where I stand. I'm not "hot" anymore, but I once was. Now I guess I'm just an attractive older woman.

Most people have a skewed vision of themselves, one way or another.
Always hard taking someone's word on the internet, but some honesty in there you don't normally see on CD about your standing today
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Old 10-11-2013, 06:51 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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C-D is one of the larger sites on the internet. I don't have a pic up and don't post too much personal info (even though I'm a guy), just because I like the anonymity. I suspect for most women, it would be even more important.
Eh I have a single pic up just because I'm not BSing and honestly if someone wanted to use it and take the time to find my real identity, then more power to em
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Old 10-11-2013, 07:01 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Always hard taking someone's word on the internet, but some honesty in there you don't normally see on CD about your standing today


I think it's ^^^ one of the blessings of being older. It's not all bad.
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Old 10-11-2013, 07:17 AM
 
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I won't claim to be super attractive... I think I am pretty average. So my experience aren't all that interesting to the OP... but I found this article. It's humor, but then it's not. It's actually written by a man who is trying to help his nanny get a date. He says she's an "normal lipped" Angeline Jolie look alike and he and his wife are stunned that she can't get a date. So they decide to help her with online dating.

My Life as a Hot Woman - Esquire


But really, this article by a man about beautiful women can offer some insight I think.
The Curse of Beauty And Good Looks In A Woman

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If you are a drop-dead gorgeous woman who hasn’t gone into modeling, acting or porn, your dating pool by default will be a shallow one. This fact is usually dispelled by women who don’t fit the mold of this with statements such as “you can have ANY guy you want” or “you’re one to complain”. This gives the beauty instant guilt resulting in the not-so-hot girl feeling better about herself and the beauty thinking there may be some truth to this. The problem with this myth however is that a typical guy will be intimidated to make first contact and if the beauty pushes up she will be instantly placed into the **** category. For a seasoned wolf, the beauty will be tried because the wolf knows more often than none a beauty will be single.

Most red-blooded heterosexual men will tell you to stay away from the beautiful women. In our minds a woman cannot be a total package. She cannot be nice, well-mannered and supportive as a beauty. She cannot be drop-dead gorgeous and not be a psycho or a total *****. Many times a guy who gets in with a beauty will literally be waiting for ***** mode to reveal itself and if he isn’t that type then his friends probably are. If I had a nickel for every time I’ve heard a guy say that pretty girls are psycho, I would have a couple hundred dollars from that statement alone. It’s a harmful cliche because it gets into your head and it sits there. The stigma presents itself in books, movies and tales of woe from friends who have found a crazy beauty.


For the guy who lands a beauty and is happy with his relationship or marriage, other guys will hate on him as hardcore as women will hate on her. Guys will say stuff like “did you see her husband? He’s just some fat nerd cat, he has to be loaded”, or “how is she that fine and dude looks like some average frat boy?” Guys spew this rhetoric without thinking twice because of how we see things. In this world every guy believes that a dorky guy or an average guy has to date down. When we see a guy that has a banger on his arm it turns into her being either a gold digger or a lunatic. Rarely do we congratulate a fellow male who is happy with his beautiful wife, unless dude is a living specimen. Let a Denzel Washington, a Michael Jai White or a Jason Statham that is built like a linebacker roll out with the beauty on his arm and dudes don’t have jack to say. It is our view that only a manly, man amongst men, alpha dog, stud deserves to have a beautiful woman. Anything else gets hated on, which is quite funny since more times than none the guy hating would never, ever in 100 years step to that woman to ask her out.
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Old 10-11-2013, 07:42 AM
 
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Guess you'll have to stay curious. Privacy is why I don't post my pic.

I know exactly where I stand. I'm not "hot" anymore, but I once was. Now I guess I'm just an attractive older woman.

Most people have a skewed vision of themselves, one way or another.
Ok, she's coming down to earth now, just a little. Good job, Caddy!
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