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Sure, if it's bothering you, if you feel like things are so unclear you have to post about it here .
Right now, he is worrying about if he is cheating on her by going out with someone else. And other guys here are telling him that he is, but it makes him a stud. That is all kinds of messed up. Situation needs some clarity.
It's kind of awkward now because they are not on that first date. Guys I date, that's usually when they bring it up, or in phone calls after. I am not sure these two are in such communication.
I think you misread the OP. He's not feeling guilty about not telling the girl that he doesn't like as much that he's dating other women. He's trying to decide if telling the girl that he does like that he's got other options will make her like him more.
girl I went out with today is british , im sort of the kind who prefers my own nationality when it comes to women and I say that as someone who likes English folk , always have
I think you misread the OP. He's not feeling guilty about not telling the girl that he doesn't like as much that he's dating other women. He's trying to decide if telling the girl that he does like that he's got other options will make her like him more.
No, I wasn't mixed up on who was who. But I think part of what he was saying was that he was worried he had done something the preferred girl would not be ok with.
@flathead: Do you know anything about Irish and English history? He's not splitting hairs.
No, I wasn't mixed up on who was who. But I think part of what he was saying was that he was worried he had done something the preferred girl would not be ok with.
@flathead: Do you know anything about Irish and English history? He's not splitting hairs.
I think you misread the OP. He's not feeling guilty about not telling the girl that he doesn't like as much that he's dating other women. He's trying to decide if telling the girl that he does like that he's got other options will make her like him more.
the girl who im not that crazy about is a nice lady too , I don't really want to string her along , Im thinking if the one who I do really like knew I had options , she might be quicker to let me know if shes interested
she told me via text ten days ago that she would like to see me again but that she doesn't know what she really wants , she also a lot more coy than the girl I was out with today who is pretty upfront about how she enjoys my company
im no Clooney so perhaps I should just stick with the one who is into me , this other girl who I prefer may just not be that into me , like I said she never initiates communication and its not that she is rude , shes anything but
Just be honest, ALWAYS BE HONEST don't hold back from expressing your feelings in exact detail, don't sugar-coat it, don't say it in a 'metaphorical' way, <--because if you do then that's lying, just be honest no matter how scary it is.~
I'm ALWAYS honest, no matter what, I tell some one I meet who I like for the first time, "I don't see any reason to try to prevent myself from loving more than one person.~ I don't see love as some thing that can be measured, every love is different and no two can ever be compared because they are never the same.~"
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