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I don't think anyone is really meant to be alone, unless they make their life that way.
You're 23 (possibly 24 now) you're not in your 90s. It is possibly to find anyone at any age. It may get tougher or it may get easier. You never know. All depends on what you put in and your perspective.
Do not fall in love. When a person falls in love it is like being married. Just go about your business.
Do not be so selective. Okay have your limitations but do not be afraid to lower your wants you might discover something you barely can get and be nice.
If all else fails save your money. What I learn is that when your not 12 and 13 and you approach the age of 20 and 26. People want relationships. In most cases people will go out on dates. The reality many people ( including ones who makes a lot of money ) are not educated enough to realize they are old and should stop holding out.
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But of course it all comes down to sex and all.
Your 23 and not 26. So do not be a cry baby. Just stay in shape. Be yourself and when you see your oppertunity to mess with the opposite sex. Do so. I have missed out on so many chances but I am also blessed for the times I had with women in the past. Maybe you next gal friend looks ten years younger then you. Right now you probably look 17 so stop crying about not getting any Vagina.
I say if your unable to meet with women then i say to save your money, Stay healthy, get yourself together. And one day you will run into that equal. That girl who will probably is better off knowning you then anybody else. Their are tons of women out their who will be single and wants sex just like you and THEY LOOK REALLY REALLY YOUNG AND REALLY REALLY FIT AND THEY ARE YOUR AGE TOO.
So stop that negative talk about not getting any Vag. Their is always somebody out their for everybody even when the odds are against you.
It's not natural to be alone all your life. Part of the reason there are so many lonely men these days is the rise of the welfare state. If it didn't exist a lot of women would find fine gentlemen like yourself to be a catch.
Its too early to toss in the towel on the possibility of being happy with a partner at that age. Love is tricky, just when you think you're safely single God places the individual in your life whom you won't want to live without. Just keep your head up and it'll happen.
I agree! Nearly 45 years ago God gave me the most wonderful woman in Texas and I wasn't even looking.
To use the words "meant to be alone" strongly implies that this choice is out of our hands. If you think the cards are stacked against you, this represents a wonderful opportunity to challenge that idea. At the very least, you can come to the conclusion that this was your choice and seize the positive opportunities that single life offers. Misery is a choice.
My uncle was 70 years old when passed away. He never dated a woman, he never approached a woman, and he never had a female friend. He died never experiencing female companionship in his life. So I'm gonna say yes.
I have a friend that graduated high school 2 years ahead of me so he's 32 or 33. He's never even kissed a girl except a peck on the cheek during a high school dance. I think he's going to end up like this.
It's easy to see why, though. He doesn't try at all with women, let himself go so he looks terrible, and the worst problem with him is that he's a douche to women. He wants a girl with porn star looks who will stay in the kitchen but he has no looks himself, doesn't work out, and has no job, still lives at his parents house.
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Originally Posted by 49ersfan27
My uncle was 70 years old when passed away. He never dated a woman, he never approached a woman, and he never had a female friend. He died never experiencing female companionship in his life. So I'm gonna say yes.
I have a friend that graduated high school 2 years ahead of me so he's 32 or 33. He's never even kissed a girl except a peck on the cheek during a high school dance. I think he's going to end up like this.
It's easy to see why, though. He doesn't try at all with women, let himself go so he looks terrible, and the worst problem with him is that he's a douche to women. He wants a girl with porn star looks who will stay in the kitchen but he has no looks himself, doesn't work out, and has no job, still lives at his parents house.
He's probably doing that so he can reject these women before they reject him. To quote George Lopez: it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If you 'cant afford counseling' then yes - you are meant to be alone forever:
Because you also cannot afford to:
Go on dates
Buy women jewelry
Take women on vacations
Buy a house
Raise children (the end result of the orgasms you would have if you were not alone)
Put money in your wife's IRA
and take care of a woman.
Sorry - but it's just basic math at this point Bro-Bot.
I love it when a man talks money management
On a serious note, though, I don't think his lack of funds is the problem. At 23/24, a lot of women are also starting out and building their lives ... and will be less inclined to judge him unfavorably (unless he's a mooch or bum with no goals in life).
His defeatist attitude and fear of rejection are more pressing concerns.
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