There will naturally be more male sexual losers than female sexual losers (Christian, married)
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Hush, woman. The men are deciding how to share us fairly.
Above is a perfect illustration as to why most will thumb their noses at topics like this. It's popular culture to believe women hold the cards and are the ultimate taste-makers in the realm of sex and relationships - the final say if you will. When you point out the uncomfortable reality that women would rather share a high status male than settle for a lower status one they could have all to themselves (and related social dynamics), it sheds a bit of uncomfortable light on to who's really living in who's world doesn't it? Of course modern westernized women with their feminism and whatnot will mock and hate with a passion anything that suggests they don't really make the rules everybody plays by. Power is the most intoxicating thing of all, and everybody wants to believe they have it.
Okay. Cue the outrage and righteous indignationnnn - NOW!
Nope. Women are willing to share men, but men are not willing to share women.
Women's sexual attractiveness and highest period of fertility (two things that are connected) are significantly concentrated into the second 1.5 decade of a woman's life. Under a "fair" division of the good of female sexuality among the male population, every man would experience at least ten years of a woman's "prime" years, but as it happens, some men consume more than one woman's prime years as the hypothetical in the OP illustrates.
There are those who sit around thinking up theories, and those who are out living.
When I was your age the only time anyone started babbling off the cuff theories was after the occasional illicit substance was passed around.
For giggles let's say some of that is true. So what? Wanna start a movement to change it? Want us wimmin's redistributed? Restrict the men?
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There are those who sit around thinking up theories, and those who are out living.
When I was your age the only time anyone started babbling off the cuff theories was after the occasional illicit substance was passed around.
For giggles let's say some of that is true. So what? Wanna start a movement to change it? Want us wimmin's redistributed? Restrict the men?
I didn't realize seeking enlightenment and understanding (regardless of whether the conclusion gave you the warm and fuzzies or not) was so looked down upon! Or was mutually exclusive to living!
Not to go all eugenics up in here, but given the rise of various and sundry diseases and conditions that are the product of genetic expression, and given that sexual attraction is rooted deeply in physical cues about health, in a strictly Darwinian sense a significant portion of men losing out might not be a bad thing for the species.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm going to get booed mightily for that comment, I'm sure. But the bottom line is that although libido and the drive to reproduce are inherent in H. sapiens, sex and reproduction are not human rights.
You mean that a fat chick or an ugly duckling will reproduce with a hot looking guy?
You mean that a fat chick or an ugly duckling will reproduce with a hot looking guy?
I think she's getting at is the macro trends in human evolution. For instance, humans are getting taller and physically larger as a species. Early humans were like half the size of modern ones on average. That only happens if the tall guys git'er done.
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