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Old 10-22-2013, 07:29 PM
 
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Would you give your number to a guy w/o him asking, unless you were interested?

Basically, I was camping over the weekend, set up by my cousins and their friends. At the end, every participant was given a brown paper bag with their name on it. Over the course of the weekend, other campers would write nice things on slips of paper and put them in people's brown bags.

It wasn't mandatory.

The woman who I got along with best over the weekend, wrote that I had a "Warm, friendly, and open" personality, and said, "thanks for being you!" She ended with her name and number.

Am I reading too much into this? Unfortunately, she's 30 (I'm 24), and she lives 2k miles away.
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:32 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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Would you give your number to a guy w/o him asking, unless you were interested?

Basically, I was camping over the weekend, set up by my cousins and their friends. At the end, every participant was given a brown paper bag with their name on it. Over the course of the weekend, other campers would write nice things on slips of paper and put them in people's brown bags.

The woman who I got along with best over the weekend, wrote that I had a "Warm, friendly, and open" personality, and said, "thanks for being you!" She ended with her name and number.

Am I reading too much into this? Unfortunately, she's 30 (I'm 24), and she lives 2k miles away.
It couldn't be more obvious. She's into you.

...or she thinks you're gay.
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Did she write her name and number on everyone else's notes, too?
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:37 PM
 
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The trick is to hand your phone to her and have her put the number in then dial it to give her your number. Then she has to give you the right number.
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:37 PM
 
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Did she write her name and number on everyone else's notes, too?
That's the thing, no idea.
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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That's the thing, no idea.
Honestly - in this scenario - I could see it both ways. I could see her doing this because she's interested in you but I could also see her doing it because she got along well with you and thinks it would be nice if this wasn't the last time you ever saw each other again - along with all the other people from the camping trip. If you are interested in her - I would give her a call and see where things go.
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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It couldn't be more obvious. She's into you.

...or she thinks you're gay.
Either way it could mean sex. If she gave you her number she's into you. Cha Ching SEX with a capital X.

If she thinks you're gay you can tell her you're thinking of going straight and if she can help you with it. You're just not sure if you can because you're confused about your sexuality. Women love emotional **** like that. Just cry a little. Don't bawl like a baby. Just a single tear rolling down. Maybe get the lower lip to tremble slightly. Turn your head away like you're ashamed



All joking aside she probably finds you interesting. Call her up. Worse that happens is you get a friend out of it. And there is nothing with having friends.
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Unfortunately, she's 30 (I'm 24), and she lives 2k miles away.
Unfortunate? oh right, you're into women in their 40-50's
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:50 PM
 
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Unfortunate? oh right, you're into women in their 40-50's
i just think she wouldn't be down with a younger guy.
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Old 10-22-2013, 07:51 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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i just think she wouldn't be down with a younger guy.
Dude. It's six years. Really?
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