Why do white women love black men (marrying, attractiveness, husband)

[Synopsis]

I'm more concerned about what's UNDER the skin than the color of it. Good first post William; had to rep you there.

[smarty]

Originally Posted by Synopsis

I'm more concerned about what's UNDER the skin than the color of it. Good first post William; had to rep you there.

And I thought they are all same color... black... I turn my light off in the bedroom...

[skatealoneskatetogether]

im white and i love black woman. i love a nice bootie.

[reconmark]

Originally Posted by Bunky39

after carefully reading many of these posts i am convinced that the author of the thread is correct. the innate hatred i see expressed towards white males by some white females in the posts, would give them great common ground with many black males, indeed a good match. thank you for the good post you got rep.

Where is this informational document that shows that many black males have an inate hatred for white men.
I can see some racial animosity from blacks towards whites due to the history of our treatment at the habds of whites, but in this day and age "we" black men don't waste our time trying to hate other people or live in the past. We are too busy trying to make up for lost and denied opportunities.

Are you trying to rationalize your inate hatred of black men?

Yes, some white women love black men, the same as some black men love white women.

[triniboy]

I think he is just shocked at the amt of white women that love black men i nthese times compared to day in the day. It does look like he has some hatred toward black men. Seems as though he is trying to get the women to find fault in us as well. Just deal with it and accept it, it`s happening and there's nothing anyone can do about it. When you seen an interracial couple just look and grumble to yourself.

[DontH8Me]

Originally Posted by Town&Country

Don't shoot me here, I'm only reporting... I've had a lot of black guys work for me in the past, we would sit around at lunchtime, all of us, white black other colour, whatever... read the paper, discuss sports, our lives, house stuff, etc... the black guys, 9 to 1 said that to have a white woman was a Major status symbol for them in their life... they didn't care how big or small, intelligent or otherwise, rich or poor... it didn't matter. The only thing for them was to have a white girl... what this means I don't know but that is what they said, and I knew these guys pretty good.

You reminded me of something an A.A. former colleague of mine told me about 6 years ago - her A.A. hubby was in IT, and all of his A.A. IT buddies had white wives. As they gained experience and rank in their field, the ones who had A.A. wives divorced them and found white women to marry. They went into great detail describing their "trophies" to each other - as if their white women were indeed "status symbols". She was the only A.A. wife in this particular circle of associates and she had A LOT of disdain for these guys. I can see why.

[returningtonepa???]

oh my--lots of insecure white guys out there?????

most women pick men for their character,ability to communicate,intelligence,and their ingenuity in the bedroom(or any room for that matter)---race does NOT matter!

[littleword]

heres my two cents........to put it simple, "black" men dont descrimate like "white" men. let me "attempt" to explain, black men like white woman that are slim, big, full figured, petite, big behind, small behind.......and the list goes on and on, so long as the woman are white. why white? because if the woman is white "there" kids will only be half black, and half black is better than full black.......(not trying to offend).

about asian woman and white men.....heres my two cents. white men like the supermodel "slim" types, and not allllllllll white woman are slim. in comparison, alot of asian woman are slim, hence the attraction of white men towards asian woman.

also......not to offend asian woman. in "some" asian cultures, if an asian woman is in her late 20's or early 30's and they are not married yet, they are thought of as (in there own culture) being.....like...."washed up", and "old maid", "unattractive", a "has been", u get the picture. also......alot of asian countries are poor and its a means for the asian woman to marry and get out of the country.

[browneyedgurl]

Originally Posted by DontH8Me

You reminded me of something an A.A. former colleague of mine told me about 6 years ago - her A.A. hubby was in IT, and all of his A.A. IT buddies had white wives. As they gained experience and rank in their field, the ones who had A.A. wives divorced them and found white women to marry. They went into great detail describing their "trophies" to each other - as if their white women were indeed "status symbols". She was the only A.A. wife in this particular circle of associates and she had A LOT of disdain for these guys. I can see why.

This reminds me of an acquaintaince of mine who is completely enamored with white women. And it was rather annoying, because it became apparent after having conversations with him that it wasn't a matter of "hey, I met this woman who is amazing, and I like being around her", but more of a "look at me, look at me, I have a WHITE woman!" From the way he speaks about them, he made it seem as if his sole purpose of dating them was because of their race, didn't matter if she was witty, fun, charismatic...she was white. I couldn't help but wonder if these women knew, if they were truly interested in him, while all he was looking for was bragging rights. I can't imagine they'd appreciate that.

[miu]

Originally Posted by littleword

heres my two cents........to put it simple, "black" men dont descrimate like "white" men. let me "attempt" to explain, black men like white woman that are slim, big, full figured, petite, big behind, small behind.......and the list goes on and on, so long as the woman are white. why white? because if the woman is white "there" kids will only be half black, and half black is better than full black.......(not trying to offend).

Without trying offend you, if you read some of the replies on this page from DontH8Me and browneyedgurl, black men DO discriminate in the sense that they put labels on women by race. To a significant percentage of black men, dating or marrying a white woman is seen only as bagging some trophy. The women that they are attracted to are very much categorized by their race and skin color. All your statement really says is that black men are willing to date women that are not petite or slender, that they don't mind dating a woman of thicker build.