Why do white women love black men (boyfriend, Chinese, younger)

[millie61]

Originally Posted by miu

Without trying offend you, if you read some of the replies on this page from DontH8Me and browneyedgurl, black men DO discriminate in the sense that they put labels on women by race. To a significant percentage of black men, dating or marrying a white woman is seen only as bagging some trophy. The women that they are attracted to are very much categorized by their race and skin color. All your statement really says is that black men are willing to date women that are not petite or slender, that they don't mind dating a woman of thicker build.

I am sure my Husband would disagree with this he would not have married me if I was a fat brainless lump !!! lol also I didnt marry him because he was the first black man that asked me. Married him because he was him nothing to do with his skin colour.

[miu]

Originally Posted by millie61

I am sure my Husband would disagree with this he would not have married me if I was a fat brainless lump !!! lol also I didnt marry him because he was the first black man that asked me. Married him because he was him nothing to do with his skin colour.

Sincere congratulations on your wonderful marriage! Love should be colorblind.

[beowulf7]

Maybe some black men are more attracted to white women than black women.

[Alexus]

Originally Posted by johndoeboy

70% of black/white relationships are black male & white woman. A poll said that 78% of white woman ages 15-30 are attracted to black men. But its just not the u.s, russian women tend to like african american men alot. In germany and australia IR dating is big. Alot of Eastern European women do seem to take alot of interest in bm. It seems that the black male/white woman is very common nowadays. Even in the south in places like ga, tn, sc, nc, miss, la, or tx you can find bm/ww.

Does anybody know why this is happening? I have a co-worker who told me to hook her up with a black dude. I did now thats all she talks about everyday at work all day long. How great he is & how much fun she is having since they started dating. She told me she even has gotten her girlfriends to date black men and they like it to.

Unfortunately, the media has done a good job of portraying black men in a negative light, ignoring the fact that black men face enormous adversity every day of their lives in this country. Adversity though not only builds character it reveals, as Morgan Freeman once said. Amidst all of these ignorant, loud-mouth, shuckin and jiving, low class black men are some extraordinarily intelligent, highly-educated, witty, interesting, versatile, handsome, charismatic, athletic, compassionate, sophisticated, artistic, deep, exciting men who happen to be black. I suspect that these men are who these women are attracted to, and in this country there are plenty of them.

[ladysrodgers]

Originally Posted by johndoeboy

70% of black/white relationships are black male & white woman. A poll said that 78% of white woman ages 15-30 are attracted to black men. But its just not the u.s, russian women tend to like african american men alot. In germany and australia IR dating is big. Alot of Eastern European women do seem to take alot of interest in bm. It seems that the black male/white woman is very common nowadays. Even in the south in places like ga, tn, sc, nc, miss, la, or tx you can find bm/ww.

Does anybody know why this is happening? I have a co-worker who told me to hook her up with a black dude. I did now thats all she talks about everyday at work all day long. How great he is & how much fun she is having since they started dating. She told me she even has gotten her girlfriends to date black men and they like it to.

I wouldn't trust those percentages at all. I'm a white female and while I find some black men good looking, I wouldn't date or marry one. I don't know anyone who would.....and I don't mean that in a racist way either.

[Alexus]

Originally Posted by ladysrodgers

I wouldn't trust those percentages at all. I'm a white female and while I find some black men good looking, I wouldn't date or marry one. I don't know anyone who would.....and I don't mean that in a racist way either.

Maybe if you moved to New England or Northern CA, you might change your mind. Never say never.

[miu]

Originally Posted by RomanInSF

Maybe if you moved to New England or Northern CA, you might change your mind. Never say never.

I live in New England and none of my white girlfriends of any age date black men. Stop generalizing.

[LeafsFan85]

I'm from MARS. No wonder i can't get a date.

[MrSykes]

Originally Posted by miu

I live in New England and none of my white girlfriends of any age date black men. Stop generalizing.

He wasn't generalizing. He was simply urging her not to be so quick to discount the possibility of meeting an attractive, dateable man who happened to be black. And he did so by pointing out the fact that, in some areas outside the poster's immediate realm of existence and socialization, white women (much like herself perhaps), who probably hitherto never even considered a relationship with a black man beyond the purely casual and incidental, now find themselves inclined to date these attractive, eligible guys who happen to be black.

I wonder whether you would be so vehement about refuting the same "generalizations" if they happened to be made about white men's attractiveness to women. Methinks not.

[Synopsis]

Originally Posted by miu

Sincere congratulations on your wonderful marriage! Love should be colorblind.

I hear that. Great post. Reps to you!