Why do white women love black men (divorced, mature, social)

[Cali BassMan]

Originally Posted by miu

But do you find ALL blondes hot looking?

Nope, just the hot ones...

[miu]

Originally Posted by Cali BassMan

Nope, just the hot ones...

Exactly. And that is what is just one of the things wrong with the title of this thread. If a guy is hot looking, women will be attracted to him. It's not the color of his skin, it's the merits of the whole person including his looks that cause the attraction.

[Cali BassMan]

Originally Posted by miu

Exactly. And that is what is just one of the things wrong with the title of this thread. If a guy is hot looking, women will be attracted to him. It's not the color of his skin, it's the merits of the whole person including his looks that cause the attraction.

I agree, beauty is in the eye of the beholder..... and it is looks that attract us to one another in the first place

[Monster#1]

I am a black man and have done research in this area. Ask yourself what age are these white women, how much do they weigh and/or how many kids do they have. First off if a white woman is in here prime, around 25, and is skinny, what most white guys like, there is no way that she is getting into a serious relationship with a black man unless she is ugly. Two if she has some meat on her bones most white dudes dont want those particular women anyway so they go to the black men. Third, if she has a kid, thats really not a problem for a brother but, ask a white dude about that. Most of the white women that I have been with either are overweight, by white man's standards. in their experimental stage, ages 18 to about 24, or over the hill as far as society thinks which means their biological clock is ticking so they will take whats available so they can have kids. Maybe this is just where I am from but, I find this to be common place. I know I am gonna get heat for this but I am keeping it real. By the way Germans and other eastern europeans in my experience do love black men.

[internat]

Germans are not considered Eastern European in Europe.

I do not where you get the idea black men are liked in Eastern Europe. I've lived in Budapest, Hungary. I did see a few black immigrants from Nigeria and Cameroon with Hungarian women. A lot of these immigrants are into dodgy business such as drug dealing. They do not have a good reputation. I had white friends in Budapest who did not get in clubs when they tried to get in with black people.

A lot of Eastern Europeans, men and women, look down on blacks. Russia has more racist skinheads than any other country. A lot of dark (not only blacks) foreigners have been attacked in larger Russian cities. Many of them were students. Some have been killed.

In Eastern Europe there is little of the political correctness of Western Europe. The Romany (Gypsies) are also marginalised (in e.g. Slovakia) in most Eastern European countries. It is a bit easier if you are African-American rather than an immigrant from sub-Saharan Africa.

Your other observations are the same as mine.

Originally Posted by Monster#1

By the way Germans and other eastern europeans in my experience do love black men.

[car54]

Originally Posted by internat

Germans are not considered Eastern European in Europe.

I do not where you get the idea black men are liked in Eastern Europe. I've lived in Budapest, Hungary. I did see a few black immigrants from Nigeria and Cameroon with Hungarian women. A lot of these immigrants are into dodgy business such as drug dealing. They do not have a good reputation. I had white friends in Budapest who did not get in clubs when they tried to get in with black people.

A lot of Eastern Europeans, men and women, look down on blacks. Russia has more racist skinheads than any other country. A lot of dark (not only blacks) foreigners have been attacked in larger Russian cities. Many of them were students. Some have been killed.

In Eastern Europe there is little of the political correctness of Western Europe. The Romany (Gypsies) are also marginalised (in e.g. Slovakia) in most Eastern European countries. It is a bit easier if you are African-American rather than an immigrant from sub-Saharan Africa.

Your other observations are the same as mine.

Don't forget that, in any country with a large US military presence, there are plenty of local ladies that will marry ANYBODY in order to immigrate to the US. Germany certainly qualifies as one.

[internat]

Well, are you thinking of sham marriages?

European women do worse things than that. There are those who go for men in prison. Read http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/htm...athlove14.html

Originally Posted by car54

Don't forget that, in any country with a large US military presence, there are plenty of local ladies that will marry ANYBODY in order to immigrate to the US. Germany certainly qualifies as one.

[beowulf7]

Originally Posted by miu

It's called "colorism", and many races and cultures have a bias towards preferring people of lighter skin color. Google up "colorism" and there are a ton of articles about it.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colorism
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/GiveMeABr...=548303&page=1
http://www.mysistahs.org/features/colorism.htm
http://www.nbufront.org/html/FRONTal...rismPower.html

Many prefer a darker shade, hence why so many whites spend so much $ at various tanning salons.

[miu]

Originally Posted by beowulf7

Many prefer a darker shade, hence why so many whites spend so much $ at various tanning salons.

LOL! White people in tanning salons want to appear tanned as if they have been vacationing on some Caribbean island. White people in tanning salons have no ulterior design become as dark as a dark black person. Maybe as dark as Halle Berry, but certainly no darker than her. Haha!

I used to tell one boyfriend about the Native American creation myth about the supreme being making mankind and how after he formed the people out of clay, he baked them in an oven to finish making them. And I would tell my boyfriend that the white people were the ones that were taken out of the oven too soon, which made my boyfriend one of the ones taken out of the oven too soon. But the people with a light tan skin color were the ones baked just right!

.... so I guess that shouldn't mention the ones that got left in the oven too long.

[beowulf7]

Originally Posted by miu

LOL! White people in tanning salons want to appear tanned as if they have been vacationing on some Caribbean island. White people in tanning salons have no ulterior design become as dark as a dark black person. Maybe as dark as Halle Berry, but certainly no darker than her. Haha!

I used to tell one boyfriend about the Native American creation myth about the supreme being making mankind and how after he formed the people out of clay, he baked them in an oven to finish making them. And I would tell my boyfriend that the white people were the ones that were taken out of the oven too soon, which made my boyfriend one of the ones taken out of the oven too soon. But the people with a light tan skin color were the ones baked just right!

.... so I guess that shouldn't mention the ones that got left in the oven too long.

LOL on your baking story. My original point was that traditionally darker races want to appear lighter, but traditionally lighter races want to appear darker. Relatively very few find milk white or night black complexion to be attractive.