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11-20-2007, 05:36 PM
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C'mon, you know all women love Chocolate.
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11-20-2007, 08:17 PM
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Devout Atheist Humanist
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: MA
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Originally Posted by strawberryfield
It seems to me that perhaps some women are attracted to black men just like some women are attracted to blonde men or tall men or whatever. There are certain physical attributes each of us find attractive and they are not exclusive.
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Gosh. I wish that I could really speak frankly on this point and not get banned or awarded neg. rep points for what I feel is the reality of this black man/white woman situation. All I can safely say is from looking at the black men/white women couples that I have seen, it's not all about Denzel Washington looking men hooking up with Julia Roberts looking women. But guess that I'll let johndoeboy keep his little fantasy about that.  |
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11-21-2007, 10:40 AM
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Not a member
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Join Date: Sep 2007
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MIU, what fantasy. I only date black & hispanic women mostly. So what fantasy are you reffering to. I have had white girls who were friends & i dated a asian, who was philipino before. So know i dont have any fantasy about a type of woman base on their race. I was just stating why is this happening, even on the tyra banks show. There were a group of woman ask to say what man is the cutest. The 2 white girls & a asian girl both pointed at the black dude. Im now starting to feel guilty about my co-worker. Because i hooked her up with a black man who makes over 200,0000 a yr. And i know there are some black woman who need a man, and since woman are the majority in the u.s. I know it can be harder for black woman because they already are a majority, now they have to compete with white, asian, hispanic, or native american woman for there men. I wish he would have gave more black woman a shot first before he started dating this white woman. Just my opinion, i think rich black men must give the sistas the first chance always. We owe it to them, since black woman more than any other race of woman stay loyal to their own man.
I was just trying to find out why their is alot of black male/white woman couples especially among teenagers & young adults.
Last edited by johndoeboy; 11-21-2007 at 10:51 AM..
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11-21-2007, 12:22 PM
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Like Hungry Hungry Hippos
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: San Fernando Valley, CA
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This may be false...but lots of teens and young adults are too naive and find black men to be "cool" and have bigger growth in certain areas of the body. If I was a young white woman I'd prolly want a big black man to protect me and pleasure me every night.
Good thing I am a white male...so I can have the asian persuasion....JOKE..
but the black man/white woman and white man/asian petite "spinner" is the same thing IMO
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11-21-2007, 12:46 PM
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Thin skin ~ Sharp claws ~ Best of intentions :)
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"...antagonizing the world, one misanthrope at a time!"
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: I'm not lost, I'm exploring!
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Originally Posted by dorado0359
C'mon, you know all women love Chocolate.
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no.. you know, I like cheese better. |
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11-21-2007, 12:52 PM
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Sideline Observer
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Join Date: Apr 2007
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Originally Posted by Fiddlekitten
no.. you know, I like cheese better.
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I like broccoli
...no not little green men. I like a fluffy head full of hair!  |
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11-21-2007, 12:56 PM
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Thin skin ~ Sharp claws ~ Best of intentions :)
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Smerkygirl, we'd get along super! I can see it now.. broccoli and cheese! 
Disclaimer: No I'm not hitting on you.. I just love broccoli and cheese! yum! |
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11-21-2007, 01:03 PM
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Penetrating Intellectual Trauma
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Space City
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Originally Posted by miu
Why talk about race as a factor in dating at all? If you get a long great with that special someone, go for it. And ignore the color of their skin, because it's what inside of them that really counts.  |
Unfortunately even the most well-intentioned do not follow this ideal. Too often people have become inclined to make prejudiced assumptions regarding a potential mate's suitability based on skin color alone, thus precluding any chance for the potential mate to be able to "prove" that what he or she has on the inside is indeed of value. |
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11-21-2007, 01:09 PM
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Thin skin ~ Sharp claws ~ Best of intentions :)
Status:
"...antagonizing the world, one misanthrope at a time!"
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Join Date: Jun 2007
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Well if they didn't complain about preconcieved notions of skin tones, it would be something else. Accents, haircuts, shoe styles...We can't judge someone else of a different color any easier than we can of the same color, what difference would it make?
As far as I'm concerned, a man needs to make an effort, to show he wants to be with a woman.
Nothing stops you from having to "prove" that what he or she has on the inside is indeed of value anymore than the next person, no matter what race you are.
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11-21-2007, 01:16 PM
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Penetrating Intellectual Trauma
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Space City
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Hungry For Cheese
This may be false...but lots of teens and young adults are too naive and find black men to be "cool" and have bigger growth in certain areas of the body.
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More naive then the Asian teens and adults who grovel shamelessly at the sight of their "white prince"? |
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